"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She made out with me at Party, but no date yet.

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backstory: blonde ignores me the whole night of her bday. Tells me she'd love to go running with me sometime (but did not msg me back on fb) when she saw me. Dances with everyone but me, acts very flirty with (turns out to be Gay Asian guy, i'm asian).

Everyone's smoking and passing the stuff around. She tells me she's really happy to see me tonight (I was late like 3 hours), a lot of her friends didn't come. She stares at me and passes me the smoke while making out , twice. She was really drunk, **** block friend took her home.

2 days later,

me: "hey D, you looked dazzling Saturday - like you said you would. bob2007
"haha, when did I say i would look dazzling?!!! Lol I don't remember saying that! Thx thou I'm glad u had a good time! :$
me: " how do you know I had a good time:p "
her: "lol I guess I just assumed"
me: any plans thursday this week!
her: "Oh, on my actual birthday? Yea I'm going to my moms for dinner"
me: Are you gonna be there all weekend?
her: "Nope I got some events going on for my bday on fri and sat .. [:)]
me: Sounds like a blast! Lemme know how it goes.
her: Okeeee, will do! [snail emoticon]

it's her bday this week, on Thurs. I thought she would be alone. I wanted to call, but I ended up texting first cause she didn't have my number, I had hers. I think calling is better, shows you're confident. How should I proceed?


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I read all of that, only to find out that you hadn't actually asked her out yet.

You should proceed by asking her out. I'll assume you're cool enough to do that without sounding creepy or obsessive.

Let us know how it goes, and then we'll have more to talk about.
 
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loveshogun said:
I read all of that, only to find out that you hadn't actually asked her out yet.

You should proceed by asking her out. I'll assume you're cool enough to do that without sounding creepy or obsessive.

Let us know how it goes, and then we'll have more to talk about.
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Right?

This is just a text conversation. Bob2007, you never even made a move. Asking someone what they're doing on Thursday is not nearly the same as saying, "Let's get some drinks this week. How's thursday?"
 
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