"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She loves you

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After taking this girl to bowling, I found out what I have been missing my entire life. During the whole entire date, she showed no signs of interest, maybe for holding hands at the bginning. I thought the date went horrible when she walked fast back to her place and I thought I would never see her again.

I gave her a hug and she looks at me with the eyes and says "that's it?", leading to a makeout session

Anyways, the moral of this lesson is that girls really don't know what they want and everything is an phenomenological experience, meaning it will never happen again and there is two sides to things.

What's this got to do with DJ'ing?

Always think that she wants you, as soon as you believe that, things will be so much easier. From now on, every girl you meet has a crush on you

Go F*** em
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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<quote>the moral of this lesson is that girls really don't know what they want and everything is an phenomenological experience, meaning it will never happen again</quote?>

<i>that</i> is a real gem. Its goin in my sig.
 
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