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She lost interest after I talked about my boundaries

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BeExcellent said:
When you are serious about someone the time you spend on other friendships naturally recedes as the primary relationship progresses.

There is no need to "declare a boundary", rather you simply sit back and observe what happens.

I have not dropped any of my male friends. In fact I take one of them to his chemo treatments if he needs a ride and my husband and I help him if/when he asks.

But all of my friendships including with my male friends have receded in light of my marriage. This is normal. We are still buddies, I just naturally interact with them less and my single guy friends know that I'm not going out with them to run around now like we did before. I don't think a married woman should do that....but I don't need my husband to tell me so. Duh. Just last weekend my husband got a wild hair to go to a bar my male friends frequent (we were out nearby), so we did.

Two of my buddies were there. One had a gorgeous new girlfriend (she was cool, I quite liked her). They were both out with me the night I met my husband. My husband went right up & said hello & we all hung out for a bit. No Big Deal.

As Duke said, you observe & let a woman show you who she is. Setting these boundaries like a jealous 13 year old is NOT So Suave.
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Totally agree. I am the person that lets the other person be who they are and we either vibe or we dont. I dont want a fabricated version of the person and I certainly dont want to try to control the person into being what I'm looking for.

In the dating world there are CERTAINLY people who will disguise who they are and pretend to be who you're looking for. The more they get to know you and what you're looking for, the better they become at disguising who they REALLY are.

Recipe for disaster!
 
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