I have known this girl for years, we went to school together. Things got pretty "close" one night back in school. Her and a friend were w/ me and my best friend. Things were going well until my friend decided he wanted nothing to do w/ the other girl. Then the two girl started fighting and things went down hill fast.
At one point I had gone to the bathroom and my buddy said to her "Well, you two are certainly getting along well...."
She responded "Yes, but you know I can't because of Mike"
Mike is a mutial friend of all of us that she dated. This happened well after they were no longer together. Mike and I are pretty tight and I had not got in the picture while they were together.
Enough background, fast forward to now.
Over the last several years we have seen each other at local social functions. We talk but we fight seemingly all the time. I give her a hard time, cutting many jokes at her expense. She takes glances at me quite a bit, I notice her doing so much it has started to make me feel self conscious, almost paranoid. I mean she does this A LOT.
At first it seemed to be some sort of attraction, or so I thought. She gets very defensive when talking to me but has no problem initating conversation. I find her tactics a little on the strange side, but have to wonder if I have messed this up by not saying/doing the right things after I noticed her glances.
I want to back up and add that another guy we went to school w/ was able to get close to her a few years ago. I worked away and when returned he told me a puzzling story. After seeing her for awhile, one night things were going well when right after he "got in her" she pushed him away and told him to leave.
Back to now. When I see her I always cut on her and after sll the crap she has pulled I tend to be on the harsh side I think.
Last night, both of us ended up at the same party for about the 3rd week in a row. Again we somehow got to the point of making fun of each other. There is some occasional kino.
We ended up talking and like always she fires off "we're such good friends, the animosity between us is what makes us friends, I doubt it would be this much fun if we didn't fight"
Thing is that line is a variation of what she seems to blurt out about every other time I see her. She just fires it off right in the middle of things.
Last night however she added a new twist. "We would likely get along better if you had let me drive that car"
That "car" was my T/A that was the talk of the town. Sharp looking and faster than Bill Clintons hand up a skirt, that car owned the road and all eyes. She was on me all the time about driving it. Sorry, I worked hard to pay for it(so expensive and got me in so much trouble I sold it) and simply asking won't get you behind the wheel. Besides for the unexperianced, the car could be deadly.
I have grown tired of her "crap" and that was the last straw. I thought, "gee you liked the car more than me" and w/o giving it a second thought I fired off "If you had given me head you would have probably got to drive that car."
Her response was "That's not going to happen" but not long after I get "I've been faithful to my boyfriend, he got shipped off to Fort something or other"
Funny, I never hear her speak of any boyfriend.
I know that is a lot of info but I think it is need for somebody w/ more experiance to answer my question.
What does it mean when a girl keeps saying "we're such good friends". At first I thought it meant "you did somethng to mess up and LJBF. After her blurting it out all the time I have to wonder if she is trying to say something else, or maybe trying to get me to fawn after her like I see others do.
My quick response every time is "We are?" " I didn't know we are friends"
What is going on here? I asked the king Don Juan at work and he thinkd the same way I do about it- She is strange. I have other interests than this girl but I really want to know what I'm doing to get this from her so I can avoid it in the future.
At one point I had gone to the bathroom and my buddy said to her "Well, you two are certainly getting along well...."
She responded "Yes, but you know I can't because of Mike"
Mike is a mutial friend of all of us that she dated. This happened well after they were no longer together. Mike and I are pretty tight and I had not got in the picture while they were together.
Enough background, fast forward to now.
Over the last several years we have seen each other at local social functions. We talk but we fight seemingly all the time. I give her a hard time, cutting many jokes at her expense. She takes glances at me quite a bit, I notice her doing so much it has started to make me feel self conscious, almost paranoid. I mean she does this A LOT.
At first it seemed to be some sort of attraction, or so I thought. She gets very defensive when talking to me but has no problem initating conversation. I find her tactics a little on the strange side, but have to wonder if I have messed this up by not saying/doing the right things after I noticed her glances.
I want to back up and add that another guy we went to school w/ was able to get close to her a few years ago. I worked away and when returned he told me a puzzling story. After seeing her for awhile, one night things were going well when right after he "got in her" she pushed him away and told him to leave.
Back to now. When I see her I always cut on her and after sll the crap she has pulled I tend to be on the harsh side I think.
Last night, both of us ended up at the same party for about the 3rd week in a row. Again we somehow got to the point of making fun of each other. There is some occasional kino.
We ended up talking and like always she fires off "we're such good friends, the animosity between us is what makes us friends, I doubt it would be this much fun if we didn't fight"
Thing is that line is a variation of what she seems to blurt out about every other time I see her. She just fires it off right in the middle of things.
Last night however she added a new twist. "We would likely get along better if you had let me drive that car"
That "car" was my T/A that was the talk of the town. Sharp looking and faster than Bill Clintons hand up a skirt, that car owned the road and all eyes. She was on me all the time about driving it. Sorry, I worked hard to pay for it(so expensive and got me in so much trouble I sold it) and simply asking won't get you behind the wheel. Besides for the unexperianced, the car could be deadly.
I have grown tired of her "crap" and that was the last straw. I thought, "gee you liked the car more than me" and w/o giving it a second thought I fired off "If you had given me head you would have probably got to drive that car."
Her response was "That's not going to happen" but not long after I get "I've been faithful to my boyfriend, he got shipped off to Fort something or other"
Funny, I never hear her speak of any boyfriend.
I know that is a lot of info but I think it is need for somebody w/ more experiance to answer my question.
What does it mean when a girl keeps saying "we're such good friends". At first I thought it meant "you did somethng to mess up and LJBF. After her blurting it out all the time I have to wonder if she is trying to say something else, or maybe trying to get me to fawn after her like I see others do.
My quick response every time is "We are?" " I didn't know we are friends"
What is going on here? I asked the king Don Juan at work and he thinkd the same way I do about it- She is strange. I have other interests than this girl but I really want to know what I'm doing to get this from her so I can avoid it in the future.
