"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She is busy. What do you think about doing this move?

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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I met this girl online and she invited me out. She was really interested and giving all the signs, but I missed the kiss close. damn :eek:

She is busy this year, last year of law college and she works hard too. You know lawyers, worst than sharks :D

She is a nice girl to work on, it might go well. But if does not its ok, no oneitis for me!!! :box:

Since it is hard to get to talk to her I am thinking about sending her an email like this

Girl

I really enjoyed meeting you personally, you are a nice person to be with. I know you are really busy these days, that is excelent, since you are doing great on your job.
You are an interesting woman, I would like to get to know you better, and maybe give you a massage after a hard day of work ;) .
If you would like to go out again let me know, the music is always playing at the jazz bar
(we went to a jazz bar on the first date).
Kisses
Thiago da Pimp ;)


I know, I know, sounds a little stupid, but hey. I must act, give a shot, who knows what the future will bring. ahhahahaha :crackup:

what do you think?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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You are an interesting woman, I would like to get to know you better, and maybe give you a massage after a hard day of work
Verbally communicating how "nice" she is will chase her off. You need to show her with your body language. Women understand and respond to body language much better than English.

Also, what the hell did she do to deserve a massage? You didn't even get a kiss yet! Throwing her on a pedestal won't help you get anywhere with her.

If you absolutely have to communicate through email, keep it short and simple. Set up a date. Say something like:

"Hey (HB's name)! How have you been? Hope school's not wrecking your brain too much.

Anyway, I'm heading out to (location) on Xxxday. Wanna join me and escape the brain wrecking?"

Nice, short, not too informal, not too formal, and aims at setting up a date.
 

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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Thanks Friend :rockon:

I needed some advice seriously. Dont know what went wrong with this. :eek:


Will do it.

lets see what happen.
 
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