"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She is 44 with a 7 yr old

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soxfan52

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She also has a 21 yr old daughter still living with her who calls herself a princess. Also an ex who calls the kid every day and comes visits every other weekend. Is this worth even banging and running or should just stay away period.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ramrod

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Stick around. Who knows, you might be able to bang the daughter too. Sure it's a lot of bull**** to handle but it's a great two-for-one deal.
 
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I'm like her ex. I call my daughter every other day and get her every other weekend or every weekend I'm allowed to. I don't have any problems with who my ex dates as long as my daughter is treated with respect. A few times I had to step in when some chump stepped out of line.

I'll say this...date more women. Let this be a FB or a ONS at best. But don't fall in the trap. I don't know how old you are, but I think you can do better. Leave the single moms alone if you can. It's a reason why she is single, trust me. The ex could probably write a book on it. And be wary of anything she tells you about him, if she starts with the he's awful stories, remember, he loves his kids enough to be there for her, he can't be all bad.
 
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Doesn't sound too bad as long as you are in her age range. How old is the OP?
 
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