Hi all, I met this woman off craigslist, 28 years old (Im 25) and she is single, no kids. We met at Starbucks last Tuesday and we hit it off well and we had excellent rapport with each other. Then on Sunday night I took her bowling and we bowled and had dinner, she was touching me every five minutes, hugging me frequently and we even kissed a few times. On the way home, she was holding my hand, and we kissed good night. As a result, I waited until today to call and she was not available so I hung up. I called back one hour later but no answer, so I left her a message. Two hours later, she hasn't returned my call, as a result what did I do on the date to make her lose interest? I was making her laugh/smile, played it cool, and did all of the right things.. As a result, what advice you could give me in this situation in which I did everything right but still no return call? Thanks..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She hasn't returned my call, what should I do?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Just chill. Stop calling. I never call twice. And I don't leave messages.
That being said, women are weird. They are moody. She might be testing you. She might have lost interest. She might be more interested. If women were easier to understand this forum wouldn't exist!
There is a really effective strategy simply known as "limiting your supply". DON'T always be accessible, DON'T call her every time you wanna talk and DON'T let your presence be felt without fail every day.
If you don't hear back from her in a few days, initiate contact again. It could work like a charm. All hope is not lost, just pace yourself.
That being said, women are weird. They are moody. She might be testing you. She might have lost interest. She might be more interested. If women were easier to understand this forum wouldn't exist!
There is a really effective strategy simply known as "limiting your supply". DON'T always be accessible, DON'T call her every time you wanna talk and DON'T let your presence be felt without fail every day.
If you don't hear back from her in a few days, initiate contact again. It could work like a charm. All hope is not lost, just pace yourself.
SharinganUser
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In the words of King Lenidius: "What can ya do?"
Just chill, and be confident that what you did and are doing was and is the right thing to do.
Just chill, and be confident that what you did and are doing was and is the right thing to do.
Igetit!
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What I'd like to know is what actually happened on the date. What things did you talk about,did you ask her any questons about herself,did she ask you anything about yourself and if she did,how did you answer them?
Also,other than her not calling you back yet,has she said or done anything else that makes you think that she's no longer interested?
Also,other than her not calling you back yet,has she said or done anything else that makes you think that she's no longer interested?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can either:LADawg49 said:Hi all, I met this woman off craigslist, 28 years old (Im 25) and she is single, no kids. We met at Starbucks last Tuesday and we hit it off well and we had excellent rapport with each other. Then on Sunday night I took her bowling and we bowled and had dinner, she was touching me every five minutes, hugging me frequently and we even kissed a few times. On the way home, she was holding my hand, and we kissed good night. As a result, I waited until today to call and she was not available so I hung up. I called back one hour later but no answer, so I left her a message.
Should have left a message on the first call. If she has call display, it's not a turn on you phoned 2 times in one hour.
what advice you could give me in this situation in which I did everything right but still no return call?
1) Get upset and phone a few more times, leave a angry message and tell her off. After all, she has to sleep with you now because she touched and kissed you so much on your last date.
2) Relax, enjoy your life and learn something new, go out with friends, watch tv, work out, read a book, go to bars and hit on other girls.
dude, your posts just crack me up! make my day man...DonJuan11 said:You can either:
1) Get upset and phone a few more times, leave a angry message and tell her off. After all, she has to sleep with you now because she touched and kissed you so much on your last date.
2) Relax, enjoy your life and learn something new, go out with friends, watch tv, work out, read a book, go to bars and hit on other girls.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Wait it out a few days bro.. maybe she is just busy or out in the city
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
get texting!