Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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she gave me her number that was so easy!!! YAHOO

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Hey guys i got my frist fish today and this fish is so good lol.

I met this 19 year old black girl at park she was reading a book about dogs and i came up to her and ask if she plans on getting a dog. She told yes she want a boston terrier and was thinking of getting one very soon. We talk about 45 mins and we talk about movies and videos games. She told me she like sushi and pizza.lol the same thing i like. After that i told i had to get to work and ask if there is a way i can talk to her later on, she said yes and i got!! I will post a pic of her if you want to see her later.

What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok let me ask you all guys this how long does it take you to get a girl number?
 

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^^ see, Id rather talk to a girl for a while, to see if she is interesting, before I get a number. Unless, i dont have the time then ill get it and go

cause, ive hit it off well on the phone with girls before only to find out that in person, we didnt hit it off as much as we thought

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think the possibility that he could have got the number sooner is a good assumption. But you have to take into consideration that he was rapport building the whole time while making a connection with the girl. I believe she will be less likely to flake on him if he does ask her out. Keep up the good work knight.
 

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Originally posted by theSpeculator
Here's a nice line to use: You seem like a fun girl; we should hangout sometime. Give me your number.
Hah, that's actually a real good line.

I agree, nice PU, Good work knight.
 

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Originally posted by theSpeculator
You don't have to talk for 45 min to get a phone number. The shortest time I've talked to a girl before getting her number is about 5 min.

Here's a nice line to use: You seem like a fun girl; we should hangout sometime. Give me your number.

And then if they try not to give it to you, you just say "oh, so youre not fun? " ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think that line is mentioned in the bible a few times.
 

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Bro..forget all the critique these guys give you.

You could have said a million other things, slang a million other lines, and blah blah blah..

Point is...you got the digits..

Congrats.

The thing peeps dont understand is that regardless if you talked to her for 5 minutes or 45 minutes...you built rapport..which lead to high IL in her..which lead to her giving you the digits.

Hope they aren't fake..hahaha..jk..

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