"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she found out..

Chase12

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the girl im dating recently found out i do drugs, thing is, instead of getting angry and ****, she asked me she wanted to try some lol... i kind of said yes although i dunno if i shoudl have said sumthing like dont do that cuz itll screw u up or sumthing... is that what u ss guys call a **** test?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jaggs

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She is curious about trying drugs?

Be careful. Don't lead people down the wrong path.

What kind of drugs you talking about ? Hope none of the heavy ****. Get her to smoke some of the mary jane with you and have some great sex or something.

I occasionaly use psychadelic drugs and smoke every now and then, and it definitely isn't something you want people finding out. Usually people just stereotype you instantly, unless they are cool with it themselves.

be careful. I have introduced some people into drugs and they have ended up going way too far down the rabbit hole.

dangerous territory bro
 

The Master Disaster

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Uh... that's wee bit unethical bro.

Do you really want to be the source of someone ruining his/her life?

The above only applies if it's crack, cocaine, crystal meth, heroine, etc...

If it's only Marijuana, who gives a fvck. If she wants to try it, give her the damn bowl. Just make sure it isn't laced with anything.
 

Chase12

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yeah its only mary jane, ive tried some of the heavier stuff and i wouldnt lead anyone into that path heh..

where i live unlike the states people are somewhat conservative about drugs, so yeah its not really cool people finding out i smoke...

shes younger than me as well, i finished school this year and she still has 2 more years to go..

i just wonder if shes testing me or sumthing
 

oakraiderz2

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Cut the mickey mouse club sh*t. If a girl wants to try something shell do it with him or someone else...fockers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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