She cried because I didn't want to go out...?

[RomanticWolf]

So this Japanese girl I been seeing for a few weeks now got all emo yesterday. We been spending every weekend together, say and sun, sex like 3 times a day, going out every sat. But last two Sundays we stayed at mine all day. Now I work everyday and I'm usually always tired and drained by the weekend so when it comes to Sunday all I wanna do is just relax and sit around playing video games and watching movies, spending time with my dog, because that's my hobbies. She knew I was a gamer before we go serious. Anyway, yesterday I told her I wanted to have a few games for an hour or two and that she can do whatever she wants and she was fine with that but I guess eventually he got bored. At one stage she asked to go out to the beach or out somewhere (we already walked my dog earlier that day too, after a while she came inside and I asked if she was okay but she started getting cold on me and I said why you ignorin me? So she started getting all emo and cried and I got close to her and comforted her asking what's wrong, she blurted out a few words about I rejected her or something and then didn't talk about it again. We made up and had sex after which made her happy again lol. But after she went home she told me she was sorry about crying and that it was because I didn't want to go out????? That kind of upset me. By heart I'm a homey relaxing guy and I love just sitting around on weekends and hanging out at home with my dog and whatever, so relaxing is like a must for me on Sundays. I was so tired I didn't wanna go anywhere at all. She was welcome to stay or go home but she stayed. And so I replied saying sorry but I'm really tired on weekends and I didn't feel like going out. We went to the damn casino the night before sheesh. I think she was bothered by me playing video games because she kept Mentioning that when she cried and that it's okay I won't come next week you can play your games.

She also sent a few texts saying she'll go out alone next week and meet another guy.. I didn't reply then she said just kidding. I felt like it was black mail. Then she said maybe she'll bring a DVD player my I house next time so she won't get bored lol.

So I dunno what to do with her.. Seems like she wants to go out every damn weekend! I don't like that. I like to go out sometimes like we been doing every weekend but most the times I prefer to sit around at home. I told her that so whatever. But wasn't that a bit childish to cry because I didn't wanna go out? By the way her dad passed away last year so I dunno if that means anything about her being emo. Also she's from Japan and only been here for six months or something. So I guess she hasn't met any guys lately apart from me.

I actually enjoy being alone sometimes but I'm afraid if I do this to her she will lose interest. Only get to see her on weekends.

 

[skinnyguy]

Bpd

 

[VladPatton]

She seems a little nutty. You basically have to stick to your guns. What happens is that you'll change your life a little for her. She'll want something else, then you'll change that too. So on and so on, until one day you hate everything you do and everything you are. You'll be miserable, but sweet gf is happy because she molded you into what she wants through her own "selective evolution". Not too cool eh? Basically just don't change for anyone, it'll bite you in the ass in the long one, and she has to understand that.

Sometimes the quiet, crying chicks are just as dangerous as the loud, in-your-face pushy chicks.