"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She asks if I've had a girlfriend

TillTheEndOfTime

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I think you had the right idea but didn't say it the right way.

For example you could have it it like this: "Yeah I've been close with a few girls, but not to the point where I really considered it serious enough. Some people might have said we were bf & gf, but I just didn't really feel it."

That pretty much ends that question dead in its tracks and leaves her wondering more about you. It makes you seem a little mysterious and does not give away too much information.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime

For example you could have it it like this: "Yeah I've been close with a few girls, but not to the point where I really considered it serious enough. Some people might have said we were bf & gf, but I just didn't really feel it."

I dont think you should go in depth about anything of your past life, specifically if you have to use so much words just to give her an unclear answer. She didnt ask for a book thick repsonse.

next time she asks just respond: "The number of stars in the sky."

Tons of guys out there exaggerate and lie about many things, jokingly or not. But in the end its how the woman interprets it.

example: today i went out to lunch and came back. then the recpetionist goes "screwit you went out? i didnt see you leave"
me: yea
her: where did you go?
me: walking around the park (actually i was just at lunch)
her: shame on you, dumping one girl and picking up another. (she thinks im a player for some reason)
me: of course....! you know me all too well.
her: *giggling*

It's all about conversation play. Nobody likes a boring conversationist.....add some life to your responses, twist it a little. There's no law saying you have to be honest.
 
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