She asked me if i was gay?

[Kailex]

The last three women to ask if I was gay, ended up naked on my bed calling me "Latino Heat".

They later admitted that it had to do with the fact that I am always well-dressed, presentable, clean-shaven and don't fawn over them like every other guy.

Years ago, I'd be offended by it too. Not anymore. Now I use it to my advantage because I know it comes from a place of frustration and it almost always is phrased in the form of a challenge for them.

It's not what they say that matters, it's how you respond to what they say that will dictate what happens next. Consider it a lesson learned.

 

[JoeMarron]

I'm the 50th person to say this but yeah you fvcked up. 99.9999999% of your responses to women should be in the form of teasing. Never let a woman make you get defensive.

 

[ChemGod]

haha yeah i know I ****ed up, but pretty glad it was with this chick and not someone I was really into. I texted her yesterday letting her know i over reacted because I was never asked that before and didnt know how to respond. By this time, in my mind it was already over with her, I was even going to thank her for asking me because it taught me a pretty good lesson ( now I know not to let girls offend me. ) When i texted her, she texted back saying something like " oh thats ok, I get it." Which i didnt really like, so i didnt text her back, thinking its over with this chick, but today she texted me and initiated another conversation. Why does she continue texting me if I failed her test so miserably? Does she want to get laid that bad? haha

 

[narcissist]

haha yeah i know I ****ed up, but pretty glad it was with this chick and not someone I was really into. I texted her yesterday letting her know i over reacted because I was never asked that before and didnt know how to respond. By this time, in my mind it was already over with her, I was even going to thank her for asking me because it taught me a pretty good lesson ( now I know not to let girls offend me. ) When i texted her, she texted back saying something like " oh thats ok, I get it." Which i didnt really like, so i didnt text her back, thinking its over with this chick, but today she texted me and initiated another conversation. Why does she continue texting me if I failed her test so miserably? Does she want to get laid that bad? haha

Failing one sh1ttest doesnt always mean you'll never get to fvck her. Some girls give second, third, & fourth chances for you to pass because their initial attraction and interest in you is so high.

So maybe she is subconsciously giving you another shot at fvcking her.

By the way, I would have OPTED OUT of saying "i over reacted" Would have been better to ignore your prior actions completely and continue with playful banter. Its better to let her sh1ttest you again and this time pass it then to verbalize your previous mistakes in an attempt to fix your sh1ttest failure. But once again, learn from this.

I say, see if you can sleep with her. Just use this girl as experience in your apprenticeship stage. Get her to sh1ttest you so you can pass them. Don't just drop her. Use her to tighten up your game or you will make the same mistakes when another "fresh" girl comes along. Know what I'm saying?

Obviously be outcome independent. Such that if you fvck up so much that she her interest completely disintegrates, opt for the not giving a fvck mind state rather than beating yourself up, because at the end of the day you are USING her as a LEARNING experience.

A+ is you get to fvck her

F = you fail horribly and dont sleep with her - BUT this is still good because you can learn from your mistakes. IF you learn from your mistakes the F turns into an A+

So really its a win win

 

[TheBossman]

Espi, clearly you are Beta. An true Alpha react to nothing, even a knife to the liver.
Would like to see some of you guys call Brock Lesnar a fellatio give homo-sexual. Do you think he would find it funny, and if he didn't, would he be a "beta" in your manly, cold, and steely eyes?

 

[ImprovingJuan]

today a ***** on badoo told i had a porcelain face, she said i looked like a gay. then half an hour later she was inviting me to dinner, i refused because a) she wasnt that hot b) i had stuff planned with my friends. bros before hoes.

it was just she trying to piss me off a bit, then i think i changed her mind. got her #. maybe'll call her.

 

[JustOlder_!]

Not sure if you can recover on this one... too darn serious of a conversation.....once you start re-texting..they will wig out. you have to see her out somewhere and hit the reset button if you want to get it to go..just my thoughts.

 

[JustOlder_!]

Failing one sh1ttest doesnt always mean you'll never get
By the way, I would have OPTED OUT of saying "i over reacted" Would have been better to ignore your prior actions completely and continue with playful banter. Its better to let her sh1ttest you again and this time pass it then to verbalize your previous mistakes in an attempt to fix your sh1ttest failure. But once again, learn from this.

So really its a win win

I agree, I would have never apologized or anything - not even face to face. Its a death spiral..the only way out is your suggestion.
I always write down my mistakes so I don't make it again. I don't know,, after hearing more about this chick ..my vibe is that its just weird.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Espi, clearly you are Beta. An true Alpha react to nothing, even a knife to the liver.
Would like to see some of you guys call Brock Lesnar a fellatio give homo-sexual. Do you think he would find it funny, and if he didn't, would he be a "beta" in your manly, cold, and steely eyes?

If a chick called Brock Lesnar a homo he would probably laugh his face off. Why? Because he knows who Brock Lesnar is. The thought of him being a fellatio-giving homo is enough to make anyone laugh because we know who he is.

The man who doesn't laugh in the face of being called a homo is the one who isn't so sure of who he is.