"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She asked me if I like her

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ckdon

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sylvester the cat said:
it's a trap...get the hell outta there...
lol, sorry i messed up the posts so I had to edit them out. cant delete :/
 

DonJuanabe

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ckdon what the F are you doing? You are spending too much time screwing around with this crap. It's like you're not playing games with her, you're playing games with yourself. Ignore her question and ask her on a real date.

You know why I'm posting this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ckdon

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DonJuanabe said:
ckdon what the F are you doing? You are spending too much time screwing around with this crap. It's like you're not playing games with her, you're playing games with yourself. Ignore her question and ask her on a real date.

You know why I'm posting this.
PM'ed you bro.
 
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