she asked for my number an IOI, even from an attention wh0re?

[big weezy]

picked up this attention wh0re in a coffee place just now, literally i walked in sat next to her table (she was using the mains plug and i needed to plug in my laptop, gave me a legit reason why to sit there as oppose to elsewhere) and asked her to plug it in.. she had her phone charging. i asked her what phone she was using as it looked cool, she told me then she went on to say she's addicted to her phone.. red flag.

basically she's the type that on a date she'll be checking her phone every 3-4 secs. she's very pretty but body is not as so obviously she'll be insecure. i went into full charm mode, she was impressed i knew a lot about her culture etc. she mentioned someone saved her while she was going through a really tough time and she was really grateful (red flag)

anyway she said 'you should give me your number', clearly this is an IOI BUT even from an attention wh0re?

she had to go meet friends for dinner so the timing was perfect for me. as we said our goodbyes i tried to make full eye contact with her and she kissed me goodbye on both cheeks, she looked a little freaked out just after. maybe i was staring too hard who knows, but she seemed uncomfortable.

she def knows my interest..i said 'so you're going to dress like this for me then next time we meet?' she says 'so you want to take me out on a date?' i was just concerned about being friendzoned i was quite direct about my intentions earlier when after she offered her number i said 'yeah i'll take u on a date'

 

[omega05]

You're throwing all these random red flags out because she says she's addicted to her phone and someone saved her from something yet you kiss her goodbye after just meeting her and wonder why she's uncomfortable? That should be her main red flag to stop being interested in you.

 

[big weezy]

You're throwing all these random red flags out because she says she's addicted to her phone and someone saved her from something yet you kiss her goodbye after just meeting her and wonder why she's uncomfortable? That should be her main red flag to stop being interested in you.

sorry i should have clarified, i kissed her cheeks (in fact she went to kiss mine she initiated it) when we said goodbye.

i'll edit what i wrote.

 

[Plutoman]

Why over-analyze? Just arrange an evening out, don't call it a date, have a good time, be a man, and see what happens. You can read signals all you want, but see what her actions are versus trying to analyze every moment of your time with her. The only time I do that is when she's my only option at the moment; when I'm over-analyzing, it's time to meet more women.

 

[omega05]

but what makes her an attention wh0re? Were there 10 guys around her when you were talking to her? All you can do now is plan your next move

 

[big weezy]

i just realized all was not what it seemed.. when she told me initially she was meeting friends for dinner nearby but she didn't know which restaurant i distinctly remember taking her number and not miss calling her, she asked me to, so i did.. then she's so ditzy, i call her and she says 'someone's calling me..' i said 'yeah it's me' she goes 'oh.. i thought it was my date calling..' i thought i misheard but i realized now that it all made sense her behavior her somewhat muted response to going on a date with me, how she said goodbye.. she prob didn't want to take the call (assuming it was suppose to be the date not me) as i would then know she was meeting a date.. so i dont know if she let slip by accident that she thought it was her date calling.

anyway i think now maybe she just wanted my number to set me up with one of her ugly friends.. we'll see. when i suggested we'd get together this week she didn't seem overly excited whereas 2 mins before she was.

do women really try to get your number to set you up with one of their ugly friends who may be from the same race or country as you?