"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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~~~She and I are Home Alone.......~~~

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Hello,

Well, this coming Monday-Friday, im planning to take care of my friends house while hes on vacation. Im going to be living there doing everyday chores for them. I had an idea of inviting this girl ive been seeing over to watch a movie or something. It will be our second date and we still havent done anything yet (I.E. Kissed, made out, etc.). So, im gonna bring The Last Samuri, The notebook, and a horror film, Just for variety. My question is, how do I go about making the move to start making out, or more. Like, at what point. We both like eachother a lot and we talk sexually quite abit. .....;). Thanks and any advice is appreciated...:p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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smooth'n'saucy

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c'mon dude!

if u do talk sexually with her quite often then it shouldnt be too hard to take it to that next step!
all i can say is bring on the kino!
wrestle with her, tickle her do whatever as long as theres alotta touching
maybe start talkin about sex with her, at least get her thinking along those lines ;)
when u feel its the right time an you're lookin in each others eyes do the 'kiss test' on her an if that goes well jus move in and enjoy!

the kiss test by the way is just basically you shifting her hair behind her ears, or jus stroking it a bit making sure to rub up against her face a bit at the same time

good luck buddy
 

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Maybe it's just me, but I'd ask to use the house first.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AC/DC

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This is easy, check it out!

Before...
First, make sure that prior to her coming, you have SHOWERED, SCRUBBED your crotch, SH*TTED, SHAVED, and BRUSHED your teeth (and mouthwash).

Then, use deoderant/antiperspirant on your underarms.

Wear whatever, as long as you look cute and you're fairly comfortable.

During...
Put in "The Notebook" (girls love that movie). Don't sit too close to her on the couch!

About 5-10 min into the movie, go into a laying position on the couch. Wait about 3 min. Then say "Ay, Steph, come lay with me".

She will, without much hassle. MAKE SURE SHE IS COMFORTABLE. Then, put one or both of your arms around her, whichever is comfortable. Watch the movie for a minute. Then, catch her eye, wink, smile, then continue watching the movie.

She will definitely start thinking about doing stuff with you right there.

But wait... not yet. You're playing hard to get. During the movie, WATCH THE MOVIE, NOT HER. Smile at a funny part of the movie, then look at her, laugh with her.

She will then wonder why you haven't made a move yet.

Then, right AFTER a romantic scene (hint about The Notebook: don't do stuff while the old people are in the movie, cuz they're important as sh*t and you'll miss the point) the girl is still in your arms. You proceed to take your non-supporting arm, wrap it around her back, bring her in close, and then gently, softly, give her a good kiss. Pull back, and look at her.

You already won.

If you can tell she wants more, continue kissing at whatever pace she likes. If she didn't really like it, sit upright, and don't cuddle with her anymore. She wasn't too happy about it (but she did it anyway!) This means her interest is not yet too great.

After... Regardless of what happens, whenever you guys are done doing whatever, see her outside. If you HAVENT been making out, give her a hug and kiss her on the cheek. If you HAVE been making out, give her a hug and kiss her on the lips briefly. Wink at her, and say your goodbyes.

Enjoy! :)




:)
 

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Hey awsome advice, I actually might use that.

Anything else guys, thanks!
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
This is easy, check it out!

Before...
First, make sure that prior to her coming, you have SHOWERED, SCRUBBED your crotch, SH*TTED, SHAVED, and BRUSHED your teeth (and mouthwash).

Then, use deoderant/antiperspirant on your underarms.

Wear whatever, as long as you look cute and you're fairly comfortable.

During...
Put in "The Notebook" (girls love that movie). Don't sit too close to her on the couch!

About 5-10 min into the movie, go into a laying position on the couch. Wait about 3 min. Then say "Ay, Steph, come lay with me".

She will, without much hassle. MAKE SURE SHE IS COMFORTABLE. Then, put one or both of your arms around her, whichever is comfortable. Watch the movie for a minute. Then, catch her eye, wink, smile, then continue watching the movie.

She will definitely start thinking about doing stuff with you right there.

But wait... not yet. You're playing hard to get. During the movie, WATCH THE MOVIE, NOT HER. Smile at a funny part of the movie, then look at her, laugh with her.

She will then wonder why you haven't made a move yet.

Then, right AFTER a romantic scene (hint about The Notebook: don't do stuff while the old people are in the movie, cuz they're important as sh*t and you'll miss the point) the girl is still in your arms. You proceed to take your non-supporting arm, wrap it around her back, bring her in close, and then gently, softly, give her a good kiss. Pull back, and look at her.

You already won.

If you can tell she wants more, continue kissing at whatever pace she likes. If she didn't really like it, sit upright, and don't cuddle with her anymore. She wasn't too happy about it (but she did it anyway!) This means her interest is not yet too great.

After... Regardless of what happens, whenever you guys are done doing whatever, see her outside. If you HAVENT been making out, give her a hug and kiss her on the cheek. If you HAVE been making out, give her a hug and kiss her on the lips briefly. Wink at her, and say your goodbyes.

Enjoy! :)




:)

awsome
 

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Yeah well, I messed up big time! She had to be home by 10 so we only had like to hours alone. She wanted to watch dodge ball so I had like no opporunity to make my move. There was some definate eye contact and I Kino'd abit. Before we were going to leave my parents came to check on me for some reason so she had to hide, kinda interesting. This girl is a big party girl. Her BF's in the past havent been all that great. That was the 2nd date and I still havent kissed her yet. Our my chances blown or am I in the 'friendzone'? I know shes interested in me but I just can never find the right time to go on for the kiss without it being ackward. I dunno, help a brother out....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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At the end of the night before she leaves say this in a playful way:

"How about a good night kiss" or "Lay one on me" or anything that refers to a kiss, while pointing to your cheek. She'll probably go in and kiss your cheek. At the last second turn your face so she'll kiss your lips instead. Just act playful and confident from there....
 

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Something you should know:

1. The first kiss is always awkward... I don't care how many times you practiced it in your head... it will never go as planned.

2. Stop treating her like she's stupid. If you are a guy and she is a girl and you invite her to a house and you are alone... trust me man... she gets the hint.

Now move... before you **** it up.

AS
 

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SHE WOULDN'T BE THERE ALONE, IF SHE THOUGH YOU TWO WERE JUST FRIENDS. YOU TWO BOTH KNOW WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN SO JUST MAKE IT HAPPEN.

O, on a side note I didn't know u were one of my brothers!!
 
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