She acts weird after sleeping together

[Lutz]

So, there's been this woman at my work who has recently gotten out of a four year relationship. Before that her and I would joke around but recently we've been talking alot more. Just last night on our second date we watched a movie and she suggested we go back to her place. We start making out then have amazing sex. I believe she came three times. Squirter. After sex she asks me what I wanted pertaining to us. I said that since we were both out of relationships recently (i'm out of one too) that we should take things slow and see what happens because I don't want her to be a rebound and that I don't want to be a rebound myself since we are still a bit raw from breakups. She agrees completely, we do a bit of pillow talk afterwards and go to sleep. We wake up and she's a little more distant. I don't push any issues on the matter and we set down to drink some coffee and talk a little before we kiss and go our own ways.

I'm sure you guys have had a girl go a bit cold after a hot night of sex. What do you all usually do?

 

[CMNILS87]

Who knows. Probsbly resents sleeping with since she still has feelings for her ex. She gave it up too early is my guess.

 

[speed dawg]

Who knows. Probsbly resents sleeping with since she still has feelings for her ex. She gave it up too early is my guess.

Yep. Nothing you can do but give her some distance and let her come to you. If she wants you, she will. If you chase her, it's game over.

One suggestion - I'd have probably kept it lighter and funnier, even during the pillow talk. She's talking about relationships, you should have just smiled and let her think about stuff. If you keep the attraction high, there won't be an distance.

 

[Dingo]

I bedded a lady out of a 20+ year marriage... I was her first after her divorce.

It is all sorts of strange for them... Understandable.... Give it time... Good luck

 

[Julian]

You gave her the beta answer. When she asked u should been like "lets not worry about such minor details" with a cheeky smile as u go down low an start eating her out for another round of sex.

 

[sosousage]

Yeah do the NC