Shallow ? Help me out !

[SmooveMooves]

I see myself as capable Alpha, but this one has me stumped. I want to hear some input for some of you guys. What would you do ?

I got a girlfriend of 3 months, Spanish chick, solid 8.5. Talked to her for a year before she finally asked to be exclusive. I was busy with alpha **** and wasn't spinning many plates so I figured fuggit, why not ? Might as well kill time.

Problem here is ... well everything's good between us, she's the standard chick. But man! I'm not getting anything sexual. I don't know whether to call her prude or what but she doesn't even mention it. I know she's a virgin so I don't know if that plays any part. I never even made out with her, I'm scared to try cause' Im not sure she knows how! I'm very experienced, but I'm not used to this. Even my innuendo warrants nothing. Is 3 months not enough time to wait for a virgin? I'm used to gettin' HB10s in bed in weeks. Am I shallow for expecting this? I have HB9s and 10s who are throwing themselves at me. Should I get what I need from someone else and stick around? Would this be wrong? Am I a pussi? I don't want to end this relationship cause', well I have no reason. she's making me happy (for the moment) What would you do?

Thanks in advance and please no ****head replies.
And this **** feels weird.... I'm not one to ask for advice. so Help me out!
-Smoove

 

[VladPatton]

First, don't call yourself alpha. Whenever someone calls themselves something, it is exactly what they're not (artist, entrepreneur, not a liar, alpha). Let someone else do it. Second, if you were in fact, alpha, you would of known you don't get anywhere with a prudy Spanish virgin. Or a virgin period. Three months and no action? This chick wants a boyfriend on paper only. She just wants the status of having one. Get rid of this chick, I don't care how hot she is, because she is a waste of time. Been there, done that, and all it is is a waste of time with these ''scared-of-dıck'' chicks.

Seriously, man, don't waste your time, let someone else try to wrangle her into bed. You tried, and sex is just not on her mind. Time to move on to a fun girl you can enjoy. Life's too short to try to convince Santa Maria of El Virgin Snatch to blow you!

Good luck, man.

 

[DonJuanit0]

I really don't get it guys! I've ****ed 3 virgins in my life and have been with some women, never got a problem with getting sex! I mean, if you act erotic, she will feel the urge to ****! You do not even make out, how is that possible after 3 months? Do you have a free house or a place where you can be alone? If yes, why don't you simply TRY? I mean, some sensual music, maybe after some drinks (which help), kisses around the neck and behind the ear... Staff like that, I mean, she will get turned on and if she does she will want to have sex! Maybe not on the first time, but later on she won't resist! I do not believe there are women who do not want to get ****ed or "scared of ****", just men who don't know how to take that enstinct out of them! Same thinking there should be men who wouldn't want to ****! Are there any?!?

Maybe it is not her no 1 priority, maybe she is kinda scared, maybe she thinks you are not the one, maybe a lot of things, but if you make her horny she will **** the **** out of you.

 

[trent_afc]

I'm no expert, but since you're in a relationship with her now, have you tried having a conversation with her about it? Maybe she's shared sh!tless (weren't we all the first time?) and needs someone to show her the way. I probably wouldn't mention the other chicks throwing themselves at you, she's under enough pressure and she just might run away, or give in and resent you for it later.

 

[Vice]

First, don't call yourself alpha. Whenever someone calls themselves something, it is exactly what they're not (artist, entrepreneur, not a liar, alpha). Let someone else do it. Second, if you were in fact, alpha, you would of known you don't get anywhere with a prudy Spanish virgin. Or a virgin period. Three months and no action? This chick wants a boyfriend on paper only. She just wants the status of having one. Get rid of this chick, I don't care how hot she is, because she is a waste of time. Been there, done that, and all it is is a waste of time with these ''scared-of-dıck'' chicks.

Seriously, man, don't waste your time, let someone else try to wrangle her into bed. You tried, and sex is just not on her mind. Time to move on to a fun girl you can enjoy. Life's too short to try to convince Santa Maria of El Virgin Snatch to blow you!

Good luck, man.

I have an alternative strategy: use her as social proof and collect numbers on the side. She WILL get sexually interested in you after she loses her virginity to someone else, so don't burn the bridge.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Hey thanks for your posts I'm leaning toward Vlad and Trent's post.