"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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killbill

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Well hopefully I spelled shaky right. Well anyways I have had this problem that when im in public and im sitting down I have to shake my leg. im not sure why this is. now I want to know if anyone heres knows how to get rid of this problem its pissing me off. Also if a chick sees you doing this does this show insecurity or what? please give me some advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have the same thing - but in my case its more hereditary then anything. But I know what you mean, sometimes its really hard to control and you aren't even aware you're doing it.

Next time I go to the doctor, I'll have to see what he thinks about it. Not that this helps much.. lol
 

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hey thats alright man. But after you see the doc tell me what he told you.
 
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