Sh!tty situation (wrap it up!)

[.Paradox.]

So I've f*cked two girls in the last month. The first without a condom because she said she was "allergic" to condoms. Like an idiot, I trusted this dirty kunt. The second I f*cked with a condom. The day after I sleep with the second one I start having symptoms of a UTI. I go to the doctor immediately and am diagnosed with a UTI (my lab tests for chlamydia/gonorrhea came back inconclusive so I have to go back in this week!). I text both of them telling them about this and pretty much say "you might have given me this." The first I never want to see again because I would bet it was her who gave it to me, but I would have liked to keep seeing the second.

Anyways, I stayed in contact with the second girl - updating her on what was going on. During our first convo I ended with "I had a good time when we hung out and would be down to hang out again when all this is said and done." Her response: "Yeah vice versa."

The second convo I told her about my results coming back inconclusive and having to go back in. She also told me she was tested and everything came back negative. I say I'm going to try and go back in to get test ASAP and that we should chill late next week (now this week) after my results come back. Her response: "Okay sounds good to me."

Last night (three days after second convo) I hit her up and tell her that my symptoms are totally gone and that I'll be finished the medication by Tuesday, so we should chill Wednesday evening. No response.

So lemme guess... She was just being nice because I was "sick," but had no intention of actually seeing me again?

 

[Skyy.]

Last night (three days after second convo) I hit her up and tell her that my symptoms are totally gone and that I'll be finished the medication by Tuesday, so we should chill Wednesday evening. No response.

L M F A O

 

[cervantesscthree]

:crackup:

 

[cervantesscthree]

:crackup: Lemme just say, I think yr right with yr observation:
"So lemme guess... She was just being nice because I was "sick," but had no intention of actually seeing me again."

Whatever the case is she's gone anyway. Wrap it up before you slap it up! And you know this!

 

[TheCWord]

:crackup:

 

[Stagger Lee]

That's just like a woman. They won't admit they have an STD even if they know they do. And even if they know they are the one that gave you it, they'll act like YOU'RE the one that is tainted. When women are so dishonest about sex and their std status and are having ONS, is it any wonder stds keeping spreading?

Just be glad she didn't give you herpes or something permanent.

Women are just loaded with double standards-she has an std but only wants a guy with none, her pvssy might be dry and loose but you better be rock hard, She's fat but only wants a guy who's lean, she's ugly but only wants a hot guy, She has a no personality or a bad personality but only want's a Mr. Personality and on and on.

 

[Jaylan]

Guys need to start being more selective about who they bang. Because even condoms cant save you from certain diseases. Stds like herpes can be transmitted through skin to skin contact...in which a condom wont save you.

Promiscuous girls may put out quicker and easier, but they are too risky for my taste. There are clean quality chicks out there looking for a decent and clean fvk buddy.

Be selective men.

That's just like a woman. They won't admit they have an STD even if they know they do. And even if they know they are the one that gave you it, they'll act like YOU'RE the one that is tainted. When women are so dishonest about sex and there stds and are having ONS, is it any wonder stds keeping spreading?

Just be glad she didn't give you herpes or something permanent.

Women are just loaded with double standards-she has an std but only wants a guy with none, her pvssy might be dry and lose but you better be rock hard, She's fat but only wants a guy who's lean, she's ugly but only wants a hot guy, She has a no personality or a bad personality but only want's a Mr. Personality and on and on.

While its true some women do lie about STDs, my experiences and talks with people have shown dudes are just as, if not more prone to lie about this stuff just to get laid.

And Id say half the girls Ive been with brought up the STD convo before we hooked up. When talking to my guy friends, they say they never really ask...and my chick friends confirm that its rare a guy does ask.

Dudes gotta be more safe about this crap. Sure a chick can lie, but it doesnt hurt to have the STD and even the pregnancy discussion before having sex. Because anything can happen, and we are responsible for our own health.

At the end of the day, its better to hook up with chicks you know well, or chicks your friends know well. Either you know the girl decently enough to know shes clean and not skanky. Or even if shes just someone new youve met through friends, your friends can vet her.

With girls you barely know, or that your friends dont know, you run the risk of them being dirty, or them lying about their promiscuity or std status. A person who has different friends than you has no reason not to lie to you. If you know the same people, theres more for them risk if they lie because word will get around and thatd ruin them socially.

Thats my take on all this.

 

[Big Nuts]

Condoms may decreases herpes and HPV but won't prevent it 100%.

Both are incurable.

50% of black women between 18-30 in NYC have genital herpes.

50% !!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Jaylan]

Whats shocking? Youve never had a candid conversations about this stuff with your bros or acquaintances? As I said, dudes themselves have told me theyve not been upfront about their status, and women have told me guys theyve dated have behaved similarly.

At the end of the day, we have to protect ourselves and expect the worst from the women we select.

 

[Skyy.]

As I said, dudes themselves have told me theyve not been upfront about their status

No need to neg rep me. It seems like you can pitch it, but can't receive it.
I thought it was the other way around...

 

[Stagger Lee]

Be selective men.
While its true some women do lie about STDs, my experiences and talks with people have shown dudes are just as, if not more prone to lie about this stuff just to get laid.And Id say half the girls Ive been with brought up the STD convo before we hooked up. When talking to my guy friends, they say they never really ask...and my chick friends confirm that its rare a guy does ask.

Dudes gotta be more safe about this crap. Sure a chick can lie, but it doesnt hurt to have the STD and even the pregnancy discussion before having sex. Because anything can happen, and we are responsible for our own health.

At the end of the day, its better to hook up with chicks you know well, or chicks your friends know well. Either you know the girl decently enough to know shes clean and not skanky. Or even if shes just someone new youve met through friends, your friends can vet her.

With girls you barely know, or that your friends dont know, you run the risk of them being dirty, or them lying about their promiscuity or std status. A person who has different friends than you has no reason not to lie to you. If you know the same people, theres more for them risk if they lie because word will get around and thatd ruin them socially.

Thats my take on all this.

Only a female could write this stuff. You are missing the point anyway. Females generally don't admit to having an std even when confronted with proof. And I'm calling BS on half the girls discuss stds before hooking up. Females don't generally discuss sh!t. They play coy and wait for the man to make a physical move. Talking about stds and anything negative is a sure mood killer for females. You wouldn't get an honest answer anyway out of a woman just like they're not even honest about the number of sex partners. Of course men lie, women force men to create a fairtale of lies to pick them up. What world are you living in, the world of a black lesbian/bi chick who dates within a social circle?

A UTI isn't necessarily sexually transmitted...you can get them without having sex at all.

Some of you need a serious sex eduation lesson.

Yeah if you're a woman. Healthy, young men don't get UTI without sexual contact.

 

[.Paradox.]

I actually lied just to see if I could get a response:

Me: Also have an appointment to be retested today. I'll let you know the results tonight.
Her: Okay but you said your symptoms are going away though, right? I'm happy to hear that.
Me: Yeah. My symptoms are totally gone.
Her: Awesome!!
Me: Lol =) You down to hang out Wednesday if my test results are negative?
Her: Tomorrow, you mean? Perhaps. Let me know how things go.
Her: No wait lol. Tomorrow is Tuesday. I'm sorry.
*blah blah blah*
*Tonight*
Me (bout an hour ago): Hey. They took a urine sample and didn't find any bacteria, so I'm clear.

No response.

 

[TheException]

And I'm calling BS on half the girls discuss stds before hooking up. Females don't generally discuss sh!t. They play coy and wait for the man to make a physical move.

Wait for the man to make a physical move? No sh1t they do...but what does that have to do with STDs? Im with Jaylan...atleast half of the women ive hooked up with ask if Ive been tested, or ask about using protection.

Of course men lie, women force men to create a fairtale of lies to pick them up. What world are you living in

LOL^

What the he11 is that? Not sure about your neck of the woods, but im not into fairytales and I certainly dont have to weave a web of lies to seduce women. Thats just negative masculinity and frankly no one wants to hear that sh1t.

 

[pinkfl]

A UTI isn't necessarily sexually transmitted...you can get them without having sex at all.

Some of you need a serious sex eduation lesson.

 

[TheException]

A UTI isn't necessarily sexually transmitted...you can get them without having sex at all.

Some of you need a serious sex eduation lesson.

This^

You just beat me on posting this...

 

[Zarky]

Yeah, generally when you force possible-STD drama on a chick you just started banging, she's not going to want to have anything to do with you ever again. Is that surprising?

Good lord man, if a chick did this to you would you want to f*ck her again?

Two chicks did this to me in the past decade. Both I f*cked for the first time, they had some sort of genital problem like a UTI, freaked out, told me about it, got tested, negative results, and then acted like nothing happened and wanted to hang out. I didn't see either of them again. Who wants that kind of drama?

 

[TheException]

I actually lied just to see if I could get a response:

Me: Also have an appointment to be retested today. I'll let you know the results tonight.
Her: Okay but you said your symptoms are going away though, right? I'm happy to hear that.
Me: Yeah. My symptoms are totally gone.
Her: Awesome!!
Me: Lol =) You down to hang out Wednesday if my test results are negative?
Her: Tomorrow, you mean? Perhaps. Let me know how things go.
Her: No wait lol. Tomorrow is Tuesday. I'm sorry.
*blah blah blah*
*Tonight*
Me (bout an hour ago): Hey. They took a urine sample and didn't find any bacteria, so I'm clear.

No response.

Cool story bro...what the he11 was the point of that? Look...heres a newsflash...the girls not interested. In case you couldnt tell...women or in fact ALL HUMANS DONT want to deal with people with potential STDs.

 

[.Paradox.]

I actually lied just to see if I could get a response:

Me: Also have an appointment to be retested today. I'll let you know the results tonight.
Her: Okay but you said your symptoms are going away though, right? I'm happy to hear that.
Me: Yeah. My symptoms are totally gone.
Her: Awesome!!
Me: Lol =) You down to hang out Wednesday if my test results are negative?
Her: Tomorrow, you mean? Perhaps. Let me know how things go.
Her: No wait lol. Tomorrow is Tuesday. I'm sorry.
*blah blah blah*
*Tonight*
Me (bout an hour ago): Hey. They took a urine sample and didn't find any bacteria, so I'm clear.

No response.

Cool story bro...what the he11 was the point of that? Look...heres a newsflash...the girls not interested. In case you couldnt tell...women or in fact ALL HUMANS DONT want to deal with people with potential STDs.

I said I was clean.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

MORAL OF THE STORY----WRAP IT UP...PERIOD! DO NOT TRUST THEM!

I don't know if I'm just really trusting or what but these broads/slvts don't care if you use protection or not. These where NOT ONS ethier!

Both woman in their 30's too! Just be a MAN and start the conversation because in my experience a woman WILL NOT.

I know I'm stupid and crazy and trusted them waaay too much. Luckily, I'm clean but I will never do that again.