Sh!t Test

[Aesthetix29]

Ok I asked a girl out on a date then an hour later followed up with the idea of a double date as we have mutual friends... At first I was like no probs... But the I realised this was a test so I stood my ground and said no Id prefer it to just be the 2 of us as I'd like to get to know you better etc.... And she respected me for that.... It also shows I'm my own man and not afraid to say no... All in all it was another female sh!t test. Anyone else had a similar experience?

 

[asa_don]

was this emma who did this?

double dates are lame, girls that ask you on a double date for a first date really isnt interested, good job in standing firm, let her make the next move if she does.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Yes mate i think shes nervous... now i know shes interested maybe not as much as me but its cool as im keeping my frame, and i mean after that we was texting each other with a good vibe all the way to 12pm last night... Things might and should escelate if we have a good date and the banter flows well,
now i know some of you think she's showing signs of no interest but i just think shes one of these girls who doesnt like to come across as keen... and i know shes been cheated on in the past which could be part of not letting someone in... but then again its just speculation. Anyways i'll keep you all updated on how the date goes.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Update on the date:-

Date went perfect she showed lots of interest lots of kino she chewed my ear off not literally tho haha... it was a fantastic night all in all ended up back at our friends drinking till daft oclock in the morning... and yes we had sex... so shes interested im interested things are looking good... infact she texted me this morning telling me what such a great it was and that she really enjoyed herself.

i'd like to take things much further with this girl.. so just going to take it easy