I'm posting this in this forum because it seemed to most fitting. 
Short version: How do I last longer in bed?
Long version: I tend to come rather quickly, i.e. after a few minutes, because I get too excited. I'm thinking it is because sex is still not something that happens all the time for me. With my steady girl, sometimes I last longer (to the point where I don't come at all) and sometimes I last only very few minutes. But with new girls, I tend to get excited and come very quickly. What's common with all of them is that after coming, my lust plummets to zero and all I really, really want is a sandwich and some calm, even if a way I want to go on.
This is starting to affect my thinking, because I do want to satisfy the women I'm with. It's not a matter of physical stamina, it's all in my head. I know that what I can do a decent/very good job with my hands and tongue.
Thus, I'm looking for actual advice, tips and discussions on this. Is it something that goes away once yous top being excited at every new girl? Once sex looses its shiny novelty feeling?
Short version: How do I last longer in bed?
Long version: I tend to come rather quickly, i.e. after a few minutes, because I get too excited. I'm thinking it is because sex is still not something that happens all the time for me. With my steady girl, sometimes I last longer (to the point where I don't come at all) and sometimes I last only very few minutes. But with new girls, I tend to get excited and come very quickly. What's common with all of them is that after coming, my lust plummets to zero and all I really, really want is a sandwich and some calm, even if a way I want to go on.
This is starting to affect my thinking, because I do want to satisfy the women I'm with. It's not a matter of physical stamina, it's all in my head. I know that what I can do a decent/very good job with my hands and tongue.
Thus, I'm looking for actual advice, tips and discussions on this. Is it something that goes away once yous top being excited at every new girl? Once sex looses its shiny novelty feeling?