"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexual Repression

lokariototal

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I AM AFRAID of expressing my sexual desires and thoughts. I've been hiding my sexuality for 21 years. It's like wanting to pee but holding it in for 21 years.. I'm depressed and my love life is ****ed up. How can i fix this??????????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DanelMadr

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Then stop being repressed. Relax and enjoy your found freedom. And more important stop thinking about this.

And most important don't be a victim.
 

Maxtro

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The trick is to slowly start letting yourself to express it. Whenever your around girls don't be afraid to touch them. Hug girls you know, smell them when they are close, but don't be creepy.

Look for situations to use sexual innuendo. Those are a very subtle way to start expressing yourself.

The best way to express yourself is to actually do stuff with a girl. Flirt with and try to date girls.
 
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