"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex while tutoring?

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Hey all, I've been visiting this site once in a while and I really like the DJ information. The DJ Bible helps me to refocus my game and remind myself to stay positive and focus on my life first, above other things.

I have a new situation I am having trouble concluding on.

To put it simply, I am in my early twenties, and I among other things I am a part-time tutor. My newest student is three years older than me, and during our "tutoring consultation" I exuded all the qualities I wanted to exude, and the girl is most likely highly attracted to me.

Our first one on one session is very soon. Simply put, I want to have sex with her, but I also want to continue being her tutor. The tutoring takes place with just her and I in a private place for two hours. The sexual tension will be immense.

This is not a question of legality (because we are both in our twenties), but more like - is there a way to have sex with this lady while still being her tutor?

I'm laughing on the inside right now because I'm happy to be having these kinds of "problems".

Thanks for any input, I'd like to gain the perspective of some of the true Don Juans on this forum.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to be a teacher. My students would hit on me occasionally.

In this situation - never, ever make the first move. Let her come to you. All kinds of bad things could happen otherwise.
 
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Wow, great advice Leporello.

Imagining all the bad things that could happen if I make the first move really puts this into perspective; it's not worth it just for some sex.

Thanks.
 
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u'll have to pick bro...sex or tutor...after u start sexin...learning is gonna be a little hard...and always beware of Lust...it's not always a good thing....it can and will turn around and bite you....

before you bite the forbidden fruit...be ready for any consequence...lol


but if u must bite....make it worth while!!! lol this just seems wrong idk y lol
 
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a young me would go for it....just for sex
the me now would take her out for a drink and see where her head is...to see if we see things on a mutual level,

but focus on tutoring..let things happen naturally...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think you should let it happen bro! Go out and have some fun with her and make your move. But make sure she's attracted. You don't want to lose your job.
 
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I come accross this situation were I am too. The girl would need to be super special for me to risk my weekly cheques from her. Its like, a couple nights of sex or her paying me every week for me doing close to nothing.
 
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