Sex Sells!

[BG the HB Tamer]

Okay, time for some theory.

The above might or might not be familiar to you. It's a model of human needs, often used in marketing and psychology. Why am I bringing this up? Well, look at the title of this post again. Sex sells. I'm going to talk about how the world's constructed to make sex a tool for control.

Originally, according to Maslow, sex is just a primary need. It's for survival. Check out the other levels in the hierarchy. See how it's now integrated all the way up to the need for self esteem?

This society has been structured to make you work for sex, Shark and Badboy can tell you about that. It keeps you frustrated, by making it really hard for you to get sex. Then, by simple psychological processes, they use that fact, to sell you stuff you don't need.

Check out these advertisements:

And check out TheAxeEffect.com.

You are being exploited. These guys are getting you to associate sex with their product, so that you will buy it! When you buy Coca Cola in the supermarket (and not a cheaper version of which you think the taste is worse), you're doing it for sex. When buying Budweiser, instead of other brands; sex. Lousy Axe deodorants - sex.

So guys will think that the bigger, better, more expensive products they get.. the more sex they will get. It is programmed!

So they'll work hard.. and then buy a Ferrari. And then what? Girls will like them, definitely.

They'll start feeling very secure. "Girls like me, I have a Ferrari", they go to a club, girls check his car out (and so do guys - and I don't think they are sexually interested in you). Then when he's inside the club, he'll be confident and he'll talk to girls and get laid.

The Ferrari helped him get laid.

Things is though, that when he was in the club, 99% of the girls there did not know that the guy had a Ferrari. Even if he told them, who'd go home with a creepy, insecure nerd?

It's the security and confidence that he has gained through buying this product. Like society (with the use of Hollywood and David Beckham and other celebrities) has programmed you.

Don't be a robot like that guy.

You don't need to blow all that money on a car. Get rid of that society programming. Fight it. Go talk to women. Get comfortable with it. Get secure with it. Get confident with it. Once you have that; get laid with it.

 

[Oxide]

Good post. As im getting more experienced i have been noticing that it isnt your money/power/looks as much as your attitude. Looks matter some, but unless you are butt ugly it that is all you need.

Mystery has been saying for years that you don't get women by spending thousands trying to be like a rockstar, you ACT like a rockstar without spending all this money. The sheer confidence makes people realize that you are one.

Here is an example from two weeks ago. I was in a bar with some buddies, and we had a limo parked outside. A guy i was with would come out to girls and flat out say - "hey, this is our limo, want to ride with us?".... guess how many girls wanted to come with? - That is right, 0.

I never mentioned anything about the limo, and had girls licking my neck.. why? Simple. I had the attitude like i was having a lot of fun and didnt give a fukk about what the outcome would be.

For years i loathed my car. It is loud, it is dented. However, this led me to use the girls' cars to go on dates, make them drive me around, make me fukk them in their cars. Now i don't give a damn. I bring girls to my car, and haven't had one girl say anything. Embrace your differences. If you are short, don't joke about it, just accept it and go through with it. If you have a crappy job, dont lie about it, just accept it and dont mind it.

To quote DMX song im listening to right now -

"Niggas think it is all about impressing b1tches, and stressing b1tches, while im testing b1tches' game, undressing b1tches and caressing b1tches"

Get the right attitude of being comfortable with yourself, dont sweat material possesions you THINK you need, for fukks sake, go find a guy who gets laid a lot. Ask him what he thinks are his weak points? I bet there are plenty.