“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sex Fantasy as Psych Therapy

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I have had a few epiphanies lately regarding human psychology and sexual fantasies. I keep running into women who want to be objectified. It's the most common female sex fantasy - treat me like a wh0re. Interestingly, the most common psychological disorder among women is a lack of self-worth. I think these two things relate in a way that most people will never understand. Bedroom play is the opposite of real life. I'm finally beginning to understand that the degredation fetish is actually therapeutic for low self-esteem women. The worse you treat them in the bedroom, as part of the game, the more it actually bolsters their self-esteem in daily life. That's why they seek it out in their sex lives.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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