Sex at an early age: its effect

[Knuckles]

I would like to take a concensus;
Who here among the good men have lost their virginity at a young age?
At what age?
How do you think it has affected you? Positive? Negative?
If positive, in what way?
If negative, have you been able to get over its effects enough to be able to assume a sound sense of sexual understanding?

I ask because I lost mines at a very young age, preteen, and ever since then I have had a ridiculous hunger for women!
Only since I have gotten older I have gained control, but only relative.
Sadly, it has affected the way I behave in general towards women.
I often have danger alarms going off in my head for the stupidest things trying to prevent me from following my nature.
I guess a throwback from childhood from when the nanny would touch me in my no-no spots:nono:
Seriously though, It has effected me posituvely and negatively, I have learned the ways early, but I am doomed to objectify and feed into the physical, and just in general attract freaks an be one. Ultimately, makes things easier to get what I want so I should not complain, but I wish I could have found the way on my own a little later, it would have made life a little less complicated, then again, who of us could say they became a man at 8 9 10... not many!!

So what about you guys? The floor is open!!!

 

[ExploringOne]

17.

Senoir year of high school. While on vacation.

Never really thought about how it affected my life. Definately boosted my confidence. Before that, I was a virgin for 17 years. After that... well, it's a long dry period for me to go for more then 2 months now days.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I'm glad I lost it later in life. I think I wouldn't have been responsible enough to handle what sex really was. It's such a power that's hard to control. When you're young sex is just a fun thing to do. No thought of emotional attachment pregnancy or STDs factor themselves in. All alot of young people care about is the feeling of it. If it makes them feel good then do it.

Yeah, then alot of people grow up with that attitude, hurt, get hurt, and have to unlearn alot of what they believed. Most people don't do that. Most people will stay in their glass cage and actually keep believing they'll find bliss while traveling down the wrong path. Women will objectify themselves, men will get many women pregnant, and alot of idiots will catch diseases through their reckless lifestyle.

"I ****.ed many men, but I LOVE you!"

Gross. How can I take you seriously if you never took the responsibility of sex seriously? It's not just about STDs and unwanted children.

I'm ranting again.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I'm glad I lost it later in life. I think I wouldn't have been responsible enough to handle what sex really was. It's such a power that's hard to control. When you're young sex is just a fun thing to do. No thought of emotional attachment pregnancy or STDs factor themselves in. All alot of young people care about is the feeling of it. If it makes them feel good then do it.

Yeah, then alot of people grow up with that attitude, hurt, get hurt, and have to unlearn alot of what they believed. Most people don't do that. Most people will stay in their glass cage and actually keep believing they'll find bliss while traveling down the wrong path. Women will objectify themselves, men will get many women pregnant, and alot of idiots will catch diseases through their reckless lifestyle.

"I ****.ed many men, but I LOVE you!"

Gross. How can I take you seriously if you never took the responsibility of sex seriously? It's not just about STDs and unwanted children.

I'm ranting again.

 

[Latinoman]

Well, let's put things into perspective...you could be like these buddies of mine (Mexicans and Australians) that have never gotten laid in their lives and literally live their lives searching the Internet for pictures of Jessica Alba and Penelope Cruz and the likes. And dream about how nice would be to get laid with those women.

So...what is better? Gotten laid early? Gotten laid later? Or NEVER?

It does not matter when you are gotten laid. What matters is that you are NOW getting laid and doing that while keeping your self respect and pride.

 

[whiskerbiskit]

i don't think it matters either. it certainly has nothing to do with sexual drive. i remember in high school it was all about the bragging rights. i got coolness points for getting laid in the eyes of my still virgin peers. if that sort of thing is important then an early headstart helps.

i have to admit i still have a little leftover of that immaturity. i always wanted to do a chick with names from each of the letters in the alphabet. i know, way immature.... but i'd be a liar if i didn't admit to still being bothered that i never got a Q or an X-named chick.

 

[Knuckles]

I can relate to that whiskerbiskit, at a very very young age one of my master dessires was to impregnate women of all different races and places... Then while growing up coming to find that it is a very common trait in men!!! Besides all that, having sex so young has made me retract from that lifestyle at a time when most men who can get it do often. That is a good thing considering that at the age I started and kept going all I had was unprotected sex and never cought anything!! its amazing considering that the persons I enjoyed my time with sometiems were more experienced than I... I cant believe I dodged all of those bullets. So now I am taking it easy, relishing the fact I had all my fun and did not get burned. I am so careful now it aint funny. so I will say for the sake of experience it is better I got laid early, but for the sake of sex education it was not. I have common sense now so I know what not to do.