Sex Advice.

[hellfire45]

So as some of you know, I'm pretty new to the whole sex thing. My current girlfriend took my virginity and I think we've been having sex like once every 3 days so its not infrequent.

I'm eager to improve and learn how to last longer mostly. A pretty typical want, I'm sure. I learned that you gotta have self control when your doing it so that you dont just bang till you *** cause that doesnt solve anything.

I have been trying to show restraint but even though I know this, it still seems like I'm only good for like 5 minutes at the most...I assumed that it would become easier with time but it just doesnt seem to be.

I mean I have heard of men going for 3 hrs...I'm not sure how but I'd like to know. Anybody have any advice I can follow for this kind of an issue?

Thanks.

 

[Distant Light]

Learn about Tantra sex

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

So as some of you know, I'm pretty new to the whole sex thing. My current girlfriend took my virginity and I think we've been having sex like once every 3 days so its not infrequent.

I'm eager to improve and learn how to last longer mostly. A pretty typical want, I'm sure. I learned that you gotta have self control when your doing it so that you dont just bang till you *** cause that doesnt solve anything.

I have been trying to show restraint but even though I know this, it still seems like I'm only good for like 5 minutes at the most...I assumed that it would become easier with time but it just doesnt seem to be.

I mean I have heard of men going for 3 hrs...I'm not sure how but I'd like to know. Anybody have any advice I can follow for this kind of an issue?

Thanks.

I'm a two pump chump kind of guy too. You just have to get creative. I can last for as long as I feel like it even though if I wanted (or didn't try to last) I could get in and get out in a few minutes easily.

A few things I do to keep my women pleased (and trust me, they stay pleased, you need not worry about how long you last):

1. Be selfish sometimes. If I feel like comeing I will. And I'll straight-up tell them to make me come and do it for me. I don't give a crap about lasting in that case. The rest of the time....

2. Always build her up slowly and completly. The more you make her want it the more power you will have and the more she will enjoy it, regardless of how long you go. This means LOTS of foreplay.

3. During foreplay do NOT let her come for a good long while. Get her close several times. You can even stop (fingering or oral) after the last time she gets close and begin penetration. Go until you are about to come and then return to oral or fingers while you cool down.

4. After you make her come atleast once you can begin penetration or you can continue to tease.

5. Once you begin actual sex just experiment with ways to last longer. Deep and hard. Slow and rythmic. Shallow and fast. Every time before you reach the point of no return either switch rythm and depth or switch position. Don't ask. Just move her how you want her. Manhandle her.

6. If you can get her to orgasm through vaginal sex then more power to you. Not every girl can. If she does then that is your cue to come if you want. At that point make it how you like it.

7. If at any time you don't want to come and are about to, just change position or even pull out and go back to oral or fingers.

8. As a last resort masterbate before sex or just come fast and then grab another condom and go again.

But keep in mind. It's really not about how long you last. It's about giving her the best sexual experience she's ever had from a man.

 

[CORVETTE06]

im not gonna lie, sometimes i get so nervous i cant get it up.. but when i do... i last like a minute. but ummm you have to pull out when u think ur gonna bust a nut... and do somethin else wit her. thats what i do....

what works the best is gettin a bj, then watch a movie or somethin and then bang her. i can last for hours then....or jerk off beforehand...

 

[hellfire45]

Wow...I looked up Tantra sex and it had some interesting "tricks".

Take an unbearably cold shower and let the water freeze your spinal area so your nerve endings as so busy with the cold and bringing heat there that it doesnt have time to let you ejaculate.

Wow.

That's really interesting....I'm definately going to try that. Unfortunately I dont think the water in Florida will get cold enough to do it but I'll be in WV soon and the water there outta be MUCH colder.

Anybody tried this? Does it really work? It sounds very cool.

 

[xcrunner4623]

That tantric stuff doesn't work. If you want to last a while, put some music on or keep some music going on in your head. The last time I got some head, a girl threw on Harry Potter. I watched that thing like a champ while still giving her feedback. Long story short, I didn't bust and she felt bad, but she said she wants to give it to me better next time.

 

[hellfire45]

really? that's a shame....

Have you tried it?

 

[xcrunner4623]

It's not really a shame but a way to make her want to do better for you and then better orgasm after it...

I have never tried tantric sex, but i have heard from friends and they said it's not all it's cracked up to be