"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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seriously sick of it.

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Alex DeLarge said:
True, but I enjoy sex.. A lot lol.
What man doesn't like sex? Sex is great, but I'd rather go out without sex than put up with horrible women just to get it. Plus having recently done a tandem skydive for a good cause, I've found something far more enjoyable than sex; being airborne.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yes dating and relationships are very frustrating and women have most of the power and they are crazy... but that the price we pay to get access to their sex...lol there is no way around it
 

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perseverance said:
What man doesn't like sex? Sex is great, but I'd rather go out without sex than put up with horrible women just to get it. Plus having recently done a tandem skydive for a good cause, I've found something far more enjoyable than sex; being airborne.
Exactly, too many guys are placing too high of a value on vagina.
 

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If it were easy we would have never progressed past the stone age......men built civilization to impress women.

Stop wasting your time on dates. Get money (lots of it), get in shape, build social capital.....you'll have no shortage of women who will be accommodating and play nice to gain your good graces.
 

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perseverance said:
What man doesn't like sex? Sex is great, but I'd rather go out without sex than put up with horrible women just to get it. Plus having recently done a tandem skydive for a good cause, I've found something far more enjoyable than sex; being airborne.
I never looked at it like that, but you're right. Some things ARE better than sex... Like bungee jumping.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zerro said:
Exactly, too many guys are placing too high of a value on vagina.
I blame society, society is just obsessed with sex. Sex is constantly rammed in people's faces, so naturally when society places such a high value on something, usually everyone else does. I prefer to think on my own two feet and make own valuations as to what is and isn't important to me.
 

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Asking to be exclusive? A NO NO.

Every dude that comes off smooth, rebukes her drama and attetion seeking behaviour and keeps options is percieved as a player to most girls [especially the part of seeming "not desperate cos you've got options"]. Deal with it. C'mon, isnt this what we even used to call dudes like this during our afc-ing days ?

MANLY MAN is what we know is right here. But its got disadvantages too, this is not to say its wrong! We decide to make decisions based on common sense which is apparently uncommon now rather than wishes.

True, alphaism comes along with a bit of *ssholism, because you display values and characteristcs that make people submissive and honestly most of these values are not really "nice"per say. We do and say thing the "normal" guy wouldnt do and this makes us stand out. It would take most people time to know you and understand you as a high status, principled fellow and then tag along.

I kinda really wish i was born with no emotions whatsoever,

@nismo, Money rocks dude. F*ck women, get paid. Wanna travel the seven continents before i exit this world!
 

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Serg897 said:
Women should never be top priority. Work on other things in your life. This has been a revelation more so recently than at any other time in my life. Even if you are banging a girl that you think is an HB10, if thats all you focus on you still LOSE (and will likely end up losing the girl, to boot).

Sometimes a quality woman will come along that is a team player and will make things easy for you. Improve yourself and the chances of this happening increases. Dont bother with games or mid-low level interest. Only deal with interested women. Anti-Dump was right, and thats why we dont hear from him anymore.
Yup.
 
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