Seriously please help. I am addicted to a messed up type of porn..

[tomwesten27]

This is a serious thread. I have a problem and need some solid, mature, blunt advice on how to fix this.

At one point I was watching all types of porn. I have over used it until I recently about 6 months ago started watching domination/humiliation porn..because it was something new.

I have over the past 2 months got into porn where women make fun of the mans penis size. I have no idea why it arouses me but no joke it has been the only thing to get me off in 2 months...its sick.

On average I go on a date a week, and 9/10 I get a lay. But the real scary part was the last woman I was with I started fantasying about her making fun of my penis before we started hooking up. I have a 6 1/2 inch penis when erect so its not like I am actually small.

WTF is wrong with me?........its SICK but yet I still get off to it.

Please for the love of god help me. Once again I am being dead serious.

 

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[spiegel549]

Bro....

You gotta go cold turkey ASAP. I am talking delete every single porn video you have. Clean out your hard drive, and STOP looking at that sh!t NOW. It will ruin you. It is already starting to creep into your head and once it settles in you are doomed.

Seriously bro. CUT THAT SH!T OUT!!

Something that can help. Anytime you feel the need to beat it, drop and start doing push ups. Do them until you are exhausted. Its something I still do and not only does it prevent you from tugging the meat it builds your chest and arms like a beast lol.

TRY IT

 

[hudpes]

The more you watch porn, the less exciting it becomes, so you start looking for the type that triggers something in your brain. Once you'll realize you don't need porn or masturbation to function, you'll quit.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Imagine your ex being banged by her new boyfriend. Masturbating seems pathetic now, doesn't it?
Works for me.

 

[Bible_Belt]

WTF is wrong with me?........its SICK

It's actually a fairly common fantasy. I'm not trying to encourage a porno addiction, but as far as fetishes go, that one is really pretty mild.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Atleast youre not watching that rosebud sh!t.

Ditch all the porn all together. Problem solved.

 

[Special EDy]

Just get a penis reduction surgery and live out your fantasy.

 

[Huffman]

Man I always wondered what kind of crazy guy would get off on that ****. Now I know... it's you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I had a gf once with b-cup t!ts who had a similar complex over her small boobie size. All her friends had big t!ts, and she admitted once that she was drawn to that as a alpha-female trait because she was naturally beta in her own eyes due to her lack of boobs. So women get off on the sexually inadequacy fetish, too.

 

[BraddH]

Your mad.

 

[ArcBound]

OP if you I neg you, will you get turned on because of your humiliation/domination fetish?

I highly doubt it. Which means it is not actually the humiliation/domination aspect that turns you on, porn is watching naked girls so of course you are going to get turned on. You are just undergoing Pavlov's conditioning or classical conditioning. You have an unconditioned stimulus (domination/humiliation) and an innate stimulus (you get horny looking at naked/hot girls) so if you keep doing the two together (watching dominating/humiliating naked hot chicks) your brain will form an association between dom/hum and hot chicks.

A naked hot woman teaching chemistry in sultry poses will still turn a guy on lol. Guarantee if you keep watching such videos (if they even existed), your mind will associate chemistry with hot chicks.

So either go back to your vanilla porn or stop porn altogether. Your problem is just a conditioning problem. Either stop it and the impulse gets weaker or continue it or the impulse gets stronger. This isn't rocket science, it is neuroscience

 

[Who Dares Win]

I would not make it so critical altough the problem must not be undervalued.

It happens the same to me to watch the most kinky stuff on porn (thankfully not this stuff) but the only thing I noticed is that Im unable to fap on things that would have turned me on few years ago.

Regarding girl in real life its a total different department, I work perfectly with no problem at all even if sometime I think about doing that stuff but again it doesnt stop me to enjoy and good ******* from a pretty girl and hard drilling her.

Anyway the suggestion I give to op is to cut the porno for a month untill the brain re-wire itself.

ps. really cant understand how being told you're inadeguate turns you on, why dont you get a crappy broken car and go around mechanics to be told how it cant be fixed?

 

[Albatross953]

I haven't watched porn this year, and the swimsuit section of the Sears catalog would probably give me a fvcking heart attack by now.

 

[Rocky_Wayne]

Just in case you are serious:
http://www.howtoga.me/latestarticles/how-to-games-definitive-guide-to-the-no-fap-challenge/