"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mwahaha!!Latinoman said:How many alcoholic beverages do you order during dinner? How many professional New Yorker females did you bed?
His style works well for NY City...not for Sidney or any other place in Australia.wolf116 said:You make no sense.
If you're trying to sagest that I can't order alcohol because of my age you are wrong, as I'm Australian where the drinking age is 18. Plus this guy is against taking women out to dinner anyway if you read his e-book.
And I'm sure all mature men bed professional NY females every day.
He is not even about bedding professional women, he is about bedding random chicks off the street in the middle of the day.
Regular pickup for all ages.
I read his articles, and he is actually pretty good. The best I've read in a long time when it comes to PUA (not to be confused with DJism). As he made it clear it is designed for NY City.
And that's the secret...people MUST adjust based on their environment. That's why...very young men getting this kind of information is not helpful. It takes maturity and experience to understand our surroundings. Applying techniques that others apply...rarely works, unless you are under the same conditions.
Plenty of "older" guys post in the main forum. I think you're just pissed off that you're not "old enough". Believe me, when you get a little older you'll wish you were a little younger.wolf116 said:That would be pointless as none of the older guys would comment. Poor moderation of the mature man section is dividing the forum and isolating the young guys to poor guidance.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Hater. That mofo actually went to Harvard and worked as a hedge fund analyst on Wall Street....and owned his own business. He's 'broke' because he didn't feel like working and got burnt out so instead got a job as an SAT tutor (they get paid pretty nice by the hour if you didn't know by the way) just to get by for the time being. It was more by choice, not because he's a bum. He's a pretty accomplished dude. He was more or less making a point about not spending money on girls you haven't fvcked and saying you don't have to be rich to bed girls. And try ordering water on a date while your girl drinks liquor and see how awkward that would be.Latinoman said:What is wrong with that? I will tell you from a DJ perspective what is wrong...
He is SPENDING too much time on this crap. Time better spent on improving his life (which by the way of things, is not as great for a 30-year-old man, as he seems to be broke). There are no reasons to PRETEND in order to get women. He needs to work on getting himself to the point where he does NOT have to pretend he is ordering alcohol so he can save some $$$ (as he admits he is practically broke).
The spreadsheet part is a little pathetic. I don't even know how many women I have ****ed in my life. I don't even remember names. Personally, I don't care as I don't live on my past glory...I rather improve in my present and future. And although, I have not reach the 100 mark...I am certain, I have had sex over 1,000 time.
The girl calling him creepy is a fool. At least he is honest. I do agree completely with the original philosophy in the original article.
LOL he seems to be doing pretty well for himself now that his "Beyond the Digits" CD series hit the market. Pretty sure he isn't 'broke' anymore.
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Still waiting for the apocalypse... *taps foot*Rollo Tomassi said:Wow. I'm going to agree with something LMS posted. Watch for the Apocalypse soon,..