sent her the WRONG txt, interesting reaction

[drak_ool]

So there's this vip hostess at one of the hottest clubs in SoCal who's been texting me on and off since I got a table at her place way back in March. Mind you, I've never been back, so I was always wondering if she's just catching up with me as a "client" or there's some romantic interest there. Her city is about 2 hours away from mine.

After not hearing from her for about 1.5 months, I get a txt out of the blue. I tell her I won't make it there during the wknd, but I ll be in town on Monday, maybe we can hang out at the beach. She says sounds good, then I get another txt from her 2 days later "wish you were coming over the weekend"

Because I'm getting all paranoid with girls trying to use me for $$$ these days, I txted one of my boys who knows her too and is familiar with the situation "You think she s just straight up trying to hustle me? ya I did drop 2Gs there, but it was months ago..."

The problem with that txt... I actually sent it to HER! lol
Her response "wrong text geez Drak_ool, am i that bad?!"

My first reaction was to laugh out loud like I hadn't in a while. My second reaction was to try to come up with an excuse, but then I thought, that's the wrong mentality, that's me qualifying myself to her. So instead I went with "Lol I dunno you tell me"

Her response was 5 (i'm not kidding) txts in a row, basically justifying herself, saying how much she likes me, how much fun she had with me, and how much she would like me to hit her up anytime I'm back in town.

Two lessons for me here: first, always follow Roissy's advice that when in doubt err on the side of *******ry. Instead of explaining/excusing my behavior I threw the ball right back in her court, put her on the defensive and it worked in my favor.

Second, money talks. I know that she is sucking up to me because she made a lot of money off me the first time around, and she surely hopes to repeat that sometime. I'm coming to realize more and more that game has limits, especially with extremely hot chicks who are simply used to a certain lifestyle. Sure, under certain circumstances you could prob bang them with really tight game while being broke yourself. But good luck keeping a high maintenance girl around without having a certain lifestyle to offer her (take a trip to Vegas this summer if you want to have a better idea of what I'm talking about).

 

[georgie24]

your a neurotic mess , no wonder you sent the wrong person a text

your blacklisted/marked in her book and her social network is ten fold yours

dont you kno these people in the industry run in the same pack?

you have no buisness handling money if you need to call your buddies

i bet thier all laughing at you behind your back

 

[disgustipated]

Lol @ the 1st reply.

 

[Skalioppe]

She's paid to hustle for fvck's sake and you are one of many fools she makes believe are special by using the sex card. She's obviously very good at her job, but you're in her phone, in a group called "Big payers", and her 5 texts were a damage limitation exercise, because she's worried you might know her game.

Test her. Call her out "Yeah right, you think I'm that naive? Prove it, we'll go out but on my terms, not your club's." Then you'll see her true colours.

 

[Mike32ct]

Her motive aside, gamewise that was good. That accidental text was the perfect neg that she needed. Following up with "You tell me" was great too.

 

[drak_ool]

She's paid to hustle for fvck's sake and you are one of many fools she makes believe are special by using the sex card.

That's exactly what I been wondering too about this chick. Bottom line though, this girl is getting fvcked and as far as I know she doesn't have a bf. So there's gotta be a way to get that done.

obviously very good at her job, but you're in her phone, in a group called "Big payers", and her 5 texts were a damage limitation exercise, because she's worried you might know her game.

Agree, that is also what I got from the txt exchange. That's why I was saying one of the lessons learned is that money talks. If she didn't view me as a giant wallet, she would have either deleted me off her phone or b.itched at me, but instead she felt the need to justify herself, knowing full well that I have other options when it comes to making reservations (her boss owes me big time).

her. Call her out "Yeah right, you think I'm that naive? Prove it, we'll go out but on my terms, not your club's." Then you'll see her true colours.

ya, i m not sweating it. I ll be in town for one day with my very young siblings, who i m taking care of at the moment, and would rather enjoy the day with them than try to spit game at a gold digger.

 

[cordoncordon]

Interesting. Really hard to say what she meant or wants until you get her outside of the club. If you do that and she doesn't put on the full court press as far as getting a table again? You are in. All you can do is ask her out.

What club was this? I know most of the good ones in S Cal.

 

[Zarky]

There are no exceptions to the rule:

Don't go after chicks who are paid to be nice to you.

No exceptions.

 

[drak_ool]

There are no exceptions to the rule:

Don't go after chicks who are paid to be nice to you.

No exceptions.

well, if I was to follow your rule that would mean I wouldn't have fvcked any of the strippers/waitresses/bartenders/hostesses I've fvcked in the last few years, probably the hottest chicks I've slayed since discovering the community. So thanks for the advice, but I ll pass

I do appreciate the DJ principle of not spending money on random chicks, and believe me, no girl that approaches me in the club/bar asking for a drink gets one from me, no matter how hot. However, you also have to realize that girls are attracted to a certain lifestyle, which you demonstrate by wearing nice clothes, driving a nice car, living in a nice place in a nice part of town. All those things cost money. Quite honestly, I don't mind spending my cash on any of them because 1. I like the lifestyle myself, not doing it just for the girls, 2. I like to fvck the hottest chicks I can get, and most of them are simply used to this lifestyle, esp in the LA area.

 

[drak_ool]

cordoncordon if I told you what club she works at you would probably know it, I bet you've probably even seen her there. But I value my privacy, as well as that of my targets, call me paranoid or a "neurotic mess" like in the 1st reply lol

 

[cordoncordon]

cordoncordon if I told you what club she works at you would probably know it, I bet you've probably even seen her there. But I value my privacy, as well as that of my targets, call me paranoid or a "neurotic mess" like in the 1st reply lol

Cmon haha. There are literally 1000 clubs between Pasadena and San Diego. From Avec and Sutra to The Playhouse. The odds of me being in the club you are talking about, and noticing your girl? Is 1000 to 1.


Out with it.

 

[Zarky]

well, if I was to follow your rule that would mean I wouldn't have fvcked any of the strippers/waitresses/bartenders/hostesses I've fvcked in the last few years

All three of them? and after spending, what, twenty grand or so in that time?

Any shmuck with cash can get laid by simply throwing money at wh*res. But that ain't seduction. Those kinds of discussions can be had at The Erotic Review, not on sosuave.

 

[zekko]

well, if I was to follow your rule that would mean I wouldn't have fvcked any of the strippers/waitresses/bartenders/hostesses I've fvcked in the last few years, probably the hottest chicks I've slayed since discovering the community. So thanks for the advice, but I ll pass

Bigneil, is that you? Lol.

Why doesn't Bigneil post on the Mature forum more, anyway? He's in his forties.

 

[drak_ool]

Any shmuck with cash can get laid by simply throwing money at wh*res. But that ain't seduction.

This is exactly the kind of binary thinking that is dragging this forum down... "looks vs. game", "money vs. game", "fame vs. game", and on and on and on

The truth is we are all here with the intent not only to understand female psychology better, as well as intergender social dynamics, but first and foremost to bang as many hotties as we possibly can. I am a firm believer that game alone will not get me where i wanna be. I want to have a harem of HB10s who all adore me. And to get there, I will not only improve my game, but also my looks (through working out and buying fancy clothes), my lifestyle (nicer pad, nicer car, nicer everything), my job, my social status.

So to go back to your initial statement, why can't I be a DJ, throwing money around and bagging hotties? Oh ya, because that goes against what you think a DJ should do. But it's all relative. Now spending a grand on a night out is the equivalent to my bank account of spending $20 when I was in college (dead broke in those days). Now instead of buying drinks I buy bottles, which attract hotties, which I then bang at the end of the night (or the waitress).

At the end of the day, I accomplish my goal, which is fvcking the hottest chick I can get. Sure, spending money makes it easier, but isn't that what SS is all about, i.e. increasing your chances of scoring HBs?

maybe I missed something here...

 

[CostaDeSol]

At the end of the day, I accomplish my goal, which is fvcking the hottest chick I can get. Sure, spending money makes it easier, but isn't that what SS is all about, i.e. increasing your chances of scoring HBs?

maybe I missed something here...

I thought SS was about becoming BETTER with HB's period.

Everything else is debatable.

How much cash you spend on them is always funny to talk about because it leads to debating about whether you are a trick throwing your cash at a prostitute.

in my humble opinion, i think we all spend cash on hb's one way or another. how much we should is up for debate.

I like this thread btw, because its nice how she saw that you are fully conscious of how she might be hustling you.

 

[drak_ool]

I like this thread btw, because its nice how she saw that you are fully conscious of how she might be hustling you.

You just inspired me to start a thread about why I like strip clubs lol. That's the main reason, role reversal. Instead of a girl being fully aware you are gaming her, yet still listening to your spiel, now it's the opposite way around.

Btw getting better at something=increasing your chances of succeeding at it. Sounds like we're on the same page...