"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wifehunter

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Sense of humor is critical.

People who are uptight, trying too hard, too structured, too strict about being a DJ, too serious...you will lose out on opportunities. Both with the chickies, and other social situations.

Aside from specific chicks, don't put pu55y on a pedestal:



If you're in the process of self betterment, I'd start here...because it sets the tone for future progress.

Relax, don't take thing SOO seriously.

NO ONE likes a stick in the mud!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree. I love stand-up comedy. I think most guys would be well served to watch more comedians.

It's important to note that sense of humor is not the same thing a being a clown-on-unicycle court jester. A clown will do anything to get a laugh. A good sense of humor cares about what is actually funny, whether they laugh or not.
 
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