"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Selfish, shy, or otherwise...

cedd

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SQ, do what you WANT to do (eat her, fvck her, whatever). Dont start to think about if its good or bad or if she will reciprocate. Go with the flow and enjoy the moment.
G. Clooney in The American (2010) said:
I came here to get pleasure, not to give it.
As you said, you enjoy eating a girl's pvssy. So I hope you really eat her pink because you ENJOY it not because you want her to like it or reciprocate it. Every "normal" women likes that.
if youre on the early stages with the girl, stop eating hers just before shes coming and fvck her if its possible.

cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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You guys need to chill out. I know a forum full of sex-starved men can't help but get cantankerous once in a while, but just remember we're all here to share our experiences and help each other.

As for the OP, you answered your own question. Use it as foreplay for sex, not as a stand-alone act, especially with women you don't know very well. You're letting them be lazy.

How are they communicating to you that they're "done"? Do they just roll over and go to sleep or what? Some women are highly sensitive after orgasm and cannot handle being stimulated immediately afterwards, but this should only preclude you from sex and not from getting some oral of your own. How does the scenario play out? She cums, and then?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
*scratches head* What? What the hell is this about? Is this about one girl who I'm with right now or about sharing sexual experience I've had with the almost 20 I've been with during a 3 year period?

Oh..I got it. It's an insult. My bad.


Thank you, bro.

I don't remember, I was drunk posting again. It's time for me to retire from the forums. Have a nice life.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Bluntmaster said:
I don't remember, I was drunk posting again. It's time for me to retire from the forums. Have a nice life.
Wow. So sudden. I didn't see this break up coming.
 
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