"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Self-perception

Self-perception

  • I believe I'm attractive, but nobody has said so.

    Votes: 2 20.0%

  • I believe I'm ugly or average, but people say I'm attractive.

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • I believe I'm attractive, and people say so.

    Votes: 6 60.0%

  • I believe I'm ugly or average, and people say so.

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • Total voters
    10
  • Poll closed .
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BluEyes

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What is your self-perception as far as looks goes?

Many guys say they are physically attractive, yet aren't(to other people).

While others say that they are ugly, yet are(to other people)

Have you had a self-perception that didn't match up with what other people thought of you?

Personally, I'd like to think I'm hot stuff...But deep down I think look-wise I'm nothing more than average...All this aside, I pull more ass than an old sofa, yet girls tell me im "sexy", never heard any comments about looks and whatnot. I know this seems vain, yet I'm sure it applies to a great many people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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