"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Self Improvement Owns!!

Precursor

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Damn guys I'm on a roll. The whole summer I've met only a few chicks but every day I've been either at the gym or at the recreational center playing hours of basketball with some of my cool friends.

I suffered pretty bad acne the year before, but i got my mom to bring me to a physician who in turn sent me to a dermatologist. I've been taking topical treatments (benzoyl peroxide) and also oral treatment (doxycycline) for almost 2 months. My acne is 80 percent better. I'm hoping to clear it 100 percent in due time.

I felt manipulated so i started reading "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene two months ago, and now I'm almost done (On Law 45).

You guys know what the awesome thing is? At school (which just started) and in the streets, I get approached now!! It's like I'm a person with high value. I've always been ****y and funny, but now i can back it up better with my improved body image. It's like the reverse, all my efforts go into me and people get attracted. Thats pretty cool. And you know what? I respect everyone, or at least i pretend to.

Some people are naturally insecure, which i was, but I learn to stay away from them. If you know your psych, you can string insecure people like puppets. Oh yeah and money is an awesome thing to have. I can't wait to receive my first paycheck in a few weeks!!!

Some of the people at school, they try and force an image on you, because they refuse to see the change you put into yourself. While you improve yourself, they just stand there doing no improvement, but they just waste their efforts into halting your improvement. LOL you guys see this? I get attractive girls come up to me, including one i reallly like and they all of a sudden they shut up.

Also, when you are frustrated (ie by some complicated calculus, some chick, some dude who disses you, bad test score, parents, anything) Just stop and ask yourself , "Yo Why am i getting so uptight? I can solve this!" Remember to not overcomplicated things.

So yeah its pretty neat. I'm here to express the value of self improvement through my two eyes. I've read some threads that devalue self improvement, and all i can go is like "WTF ARE THEY THINKING". What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Royal Ace

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happy to see another sucessfull person :D

i'm on my way, slowly but steady
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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