"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Self help is addicting.....

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Self help sites are addicting, expecially when you are constantly trying to find a solution to your problem. I have problems which I won't share here unless you want me to, but I constantly look at forums, including this one, and depression and anxiety forums, and relationship forums, etc. I work at a bookstore and I read constantly books from the self help section. I also read Psychology today the magazine. I am even taking an online psychology course online and writing my paper on Avoidant Personality Disorder, an illness whose criteria I seem to fullfill. Am I nuts and can anyone relate? Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get help man.

I think people always could use work on themselves but if youre at the point where self help is COUNTER productive stop reading about it and just get out there and apply what you learn.

I think thats the key. A lot of people who read this site will probably be think that they are gathering their ammunition if you will for when they meet chicks but I bet at least half if not more of them will never use a single trick or tip they learned here or will not approach girls in any greater quanity or of greater quality than they would have if they never came accross this site.

Self help is generally a waste of time, depending on the material. There is some good stuff out there, mostly the stuff that teaches you specific things. Its more How to then self help that way, and it sorta works.

But the key to making it work is not reading about it 24/7 but by doing.
 
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wow no cant say ive resorted to that much self help....this site is pretty much it.but im sure some people are addicted to slef help books and suck, other wise why would there be so many of them?
 
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