"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seems only older women take interest.

Eccentric

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Ok, this is isn't a rant but more like random thoughts... So stick with me if things seem a little out of place.

I work at a casino. I used to be on the 3rd shift, but moved to 2nd. The hours are 5pm-1am, and for a single guy, I'm really liking these hours. Anyways.... Since the move I now work around customers. Lately I've been noticing that I draw a lot of eye contact, smiles, whatever from older women who are probably 30-45 years old. Personally I think it's great. Even the older workers are friendly and talkative with me.

Here's the issue though...

It's the EXACT opposite with the girls that work there from 18-25ish range. They're kinda prudes. Like their **** doesn't stink, so they can't talk. Not even a simple hi or hello when you walk by. I always over hear them talking about guys that are hot that work there. All the guys are wiggas. I usually catch the girls off guard and sometimes they change subjects. So I know they're not thinking "oh lets say this around this guy".... then again maybe they are.

I don't carry the bad boy persona, so maybe that's what it is. But whether its coworkers or customers, the results seem to be the same. Hell I don't even catch a second look from some of the younger hotties. But throw a sexy 36 year old in my section and I'm always catching them out of the corner of my eye.

Now I know I'm not ugly (or am I? lol). My best friends mother always calls me Colin Farrell. I never saw the resemblance until I came across this picture.
It's a morph of Colin Farrell and David Beckham. I almost **** my self. That's me except that I've got brown eyes and the bridge of the nose is a little different. I wish I had a pic to upload but I dont.

I just find it odd that all my straws are in the baskets held by older women. But I'll bang 35 over 25 any day. Maybe the younger girls think I'm the hottest thing since fire. Or maybe they love the guys who talk ebonics and think they're gangsters but can't count to 5 without using their hand.

To sum it up, I just find that it's extremely odd that all the "lovin" is coming from the older women. Then again, it's not a bad thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fresh_to_death

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Older women will go out of their way to show you that they are interested. The behavior you described of the young chicks is typical. It's annoying as ****. That's why I usually limit my conversations with them, because they act as if everything you say is weird and/or beyond them. You should take advantage of your situation.

Just curious, what do you do at the casino?


P.S. - I'm not gay or anything, but if you look similar to that I could see why the mature ladies are eye ****ing you. You look like a boy toy, lol.
 

Eccentric

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Light maintenance, and some cleaning; which is mostly panning up crap that drops on the floor. It's a job within the Laborers Union though, so it's great. But the downside is they hate us because of it. Everything that goes wrong in that place is our fault.

About the younger chicks... Over the past year I've really outgrown them attraction wise. I mean yeah they're still hot, and I'd still **** them. But I've got such a hard on for older women now. They wont bore you with stories of lipstick shades, car rides, and the dreaded "last weekend." They know nothing about everything.

Never thought of a boy toy... But I assure you that picture is pretty much me. Right down to the beard. I'm definitely going to take advantage of this though.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Agreed. Older chicks are more mature and don't care as much what other people think of them. They can also think for themselves. Its prolly why i also tend to like them.
 
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