Seemingly good girls or not interested

[Rising765]

hey,

made out with a chick and she seemed into it but didn't want to go further and gave me her number and left but still stayed at the party. now, is she just a good girl or did I got rejected?

Also what should I do when she says she is not up for one-night-stands or stuff like that. I think, I should take her number, go approach other women and call her to make date arrangments later on if interested. correct?

 

[Eph]

Its unlikely she was either a good girl or not interested. You wouldn't have made out with her if she wasn't interested. The thing is, women (in most cases) expect the guy to be able to break through their defenses.

She doesn't want to feel like a ho by giving it up so easily (societal pressure), so she acts like she won't go any further. In actuality, she knows in her mind she's probably going to end up giving it up.

Its your job as a guy to be able to tell the difference between a "no." and a "NO! STOP!". If she says she's not up for ONS (and assuming you and her are still in High School I believe it), its best to see how far you can get and if she still holds firm on not having sex, get her number and try again later.

 

[idoloveromance]

I think she was just a good girl. she's not up to those kind of stuff, maybe she thinks that you're really interested. not that just interested in having fun with just her body. you know what I mean?