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Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Seeking advice on how to take care of your johnson

Mister Big

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I posted this here as it got little to no response in the DJ forum.

Here's one subject that I have yet to get good information on: from other DJs, dermatologists, or the internet. Does anyone have tips on how to take good care of your penis? You know skin care, types of condoms and lubricants that don't irritate, lotions to use after trimming, etc. I wish there was a guide out there.

I have trouble keeping my guy from getting worn down. I am a little older and its gotten worse with age. You know, little scratches and scraps on your dude after sex. Recently, its been a problem. The wear and tear is a discomfort, and the appearance is something I'd like to avoid. Most importantly, its not good for being safe as any scratch provides an opportunity for the transfer of HB cooties.

I am not a "one minute wonder" kind of guy, so it takes me time and unless I use lubricants it can be wearing. I try to be gentle, but I think I am not as sensitive down there so I like it long and tend to be aggressive as I get to the end. I haven't had any complaints, quite the opposite, unless she gets dried out before the end and it hurts her. Also, I think lubricants, spermicides, and latex create irritation in the form of a rash. I've been tested for STDs, so that's not the problem. No dermatologist has helped me with this yet.

One last thing is that women like a man who's at least a little trim down there. This can create some irritation where you trim yourself. How do you avoid this?

The only thing that usually works for me to heal is inactivity which is not the option I'd choose over something better.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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ApocalypseCow2

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Originally posted by Mister Big

One last thing is that women like a man who's at least a little trim down there. This can create some irritation where you trim yourself. How do you avoid this?
What are you using to trim yourself? I use an electric razor with adjustable heights (no, it's NOT the same one I use to shave my face, in case you're wondering ;) ). I don't recommend using disposable razors and shaving down to the skin.

If you're getting dry down there, you can always use skin moisturizer.

I always recommend lubricants. If your johnson is getting burned because it's so dry down there, I'm sure she's not feeling to great, either. In fact, it's probably worse for her.
 

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Re: Re: Seeking advice on how to take care of your johnson

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
What are you using to trim yourself?

If you're getting dry down there, you can always use skin moisturizer.

I always recommend lubricants.
I too use an electric razor with adjustable heightsbut its a cheapy. Maybe a much better one would help me.

How do the porn dudes keep from getting all rashed up as they are hairless in some places? Someone has to know the answer to this.

What lotions and lubricants work the best and are the most hypoallergenic and natural?
 
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