"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seduction: water

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Seduction: Water

In achieving great success with women, the true art of becoming a master womanizer lies in being like water

In seduction and in the art of being attractive to massive amounts of women there is going to be great obstacles.

Our goal in being DJs is to occupy a non-affectivity towards these obstacles. Overcoming everything that gets thrown in our direction.

These obstacles will include a great many sh1t tests, emotional turmoil, devilish women whom will try and get the better of you, periods of oneitis, girls that cheat on you, circumstances that go beyond your power of adaptability, confusion, egoistic and narcissistic supply that end up inflating the ego which negatively affect rationality and many many more.

Usually these things get the better of men. They stop at these obstacles instead of flowing around them. They dwell. They end up getting heart broken, they end up in the friend zone. Rejected. Cheated on. Lied to. This Leads to men becoming upset. Resentful. Angry. Frustrated. Which ultimately affects their game, state of mind, peace of mind, and fundamentally rattles their inner being. Spending days, weeks, months, even entire lives contemplating these obstacles instead of pushing forward. They end up in a whirlpool.

Your ability to handle these obstacles shows your true value.

The trick is to assume the formlessness of water. Realizing that these are inevitabilities.

What are the attributes of water?

As a river flows, it moulds it self around the obstacles that nature puts forth. Rocks, sticks, fish, trees. It flows around these, never interrupted and ultimately ends up at the final goal. Its destination.

As DJ's we need to flow like water in a river. Never interrupted or rattled by the obstacles that lay ahead of us.

Rejection? Flow through it and accept it as part of the journey

Being cheated on? Accept it and flow with the river

Frustrations? Anger? Jealousy? Rocks, sticks, and trees. As water in a river, we are uninterrupted by these emotions. They are but obstacles that dont get in the way of our path. Our destination.

We finally reach our destination. Which is a realization that there is no final destination, but that we keep pushing forward into bigger bodies of water, never flowing backwards but continuing to become bigger and better. Ultimately becoming a huge ocean of knowledge where we create the obstacles for others, not the other way around. We are host to many fish (women) and as we grow into bigger bodies of water we can tackle more obstacles and can occupy a greater abundance of women. Eradicating scarcity.

We are the host. We are the massive body of water. A woman? Just a fish in your ocean. Dont let her make you believe that you are a fish in her ocean. You are the prize. You run the show. Little obstacles dont interrupt your flow of life. And as you grow into the bigger body of water, the bigger the obstacles you can handle. So be like the river pushing forward into the ocean. Continue bettering yourself, treat women like fishes in your ecosystem. Flow around obstacles. And the flow of your river is how strong your drive is for perpetual betterment.

Peace.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Needed this sure thing dont Let girls affect your mood, respect and value yourself and keep pushing forward game is full of twists and turns
 

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Top post. Law 48 of the 48 Laws Of Power is the glue that binds together all other laws and reconciles their contradictions. Both the law and its reversal are critical to achieving success.

My ideal game strategy is one of formlessness. It should appear to the other players in the game that I have no target, no objective, and no rationale whatsoever. This forces them to reveal their own positions. There can be feints and counter-feints where people appear to coalesce around a false position to try to draw me out but then retreat. At these points I retreat into formlessness again.

The critical point is when the potential targets have all signalled their interest and I have to choose between them. From this point on I hit with everything I have and assume that every sh!t test, obstacle and objection is a lie. This is the reversal of the law.

This is all easier said than done, of course. Conscious and subconscious must be in alignment at the switching point. This can be hard if there are problems in the physical world that are draining your energy and making you anxious or depressed.
 

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Ha! The OP sounds like Mark Twain.

Nice motivational words all the same.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Turuwal said:
Top post. Law 48 of the 48 Laws Of Power is the glue that binds together all other laws and reconciles their contradictions. Both the law and its reversal are critical to achieving success.

My ideal game strategy is one of formlessness. It should appear to the other players in the game that I have no target, no objective, and no rationale whatsoever. This forces them to reveal their own positions. There can be feints and counter-feints where people appear to coalesce around a false position to try to draw me out but then retreat. At these points I retreat into formlessness again.

The critical point is when the potential targets have all signalled their interest and I have to choose between them. From this point on I hit with everything I have and assume that every sh!t test, obstacle and objection is a lie. This is the reversal of the law.

This is all easier said than done, of course. Conscious and subconscious must be in alignment at the switching point. This can be hard if there are problems in the physical world that are draining your energy and making you anxious or depressed.

I always thought that law 48 "assume formlessness" was his best law.

When you get down to life fundementally one must realize that we are not in control of circumstances, but only in control of ourselves. Knowing this is liberating. We must assume formlessness knowing that life will throw sh1t at us, and because we are inherently strong within ourselves when can overcome anything. Prepare, knowing that your preparation might be worthless.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Ha! The OP sounds like Mark Twain.

Nice motivational words all the same.
hahahaha

Ill take that as a compliment. Thanks

I wanted to try a new writing style as I am trying to enhance my writing skills.

I wanted to delve into metaphorical style. Seeing as I like it more.
 

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narcissist said:
I always thought that law 48 "assume formlessness" was his best law.

When you get down to life fundementally one must realize that we are not in control of circumstances, but only in control of ourselves. Knowing this is liberating. We must assume formlessness knowing that life will throw sh1t at us, and because we are inherently strong within ourselves when can overcome anything. Prepare, knowing that your preparation might be worthless.
Nassim Taleb makes the same argument in his books The Black Swan and Fooled By Randomness. They are mostly concerned with finance and wealth creation but the lessons apply to life as well. He draws on Greek mythology, where it was simply assumed that no matter what preparations you had made for a battle, the Gods may simply turn on a whim and decide that you should be defeated. Taleb's philosophy is that you should harden yourself against unpredictable yet high impact events on the downside, and position yourself to take full advantage of them on the upside. Kind of like how we harden ourselves emotionally so that we can wade through those 99 rejections and then hit home when the Gods deliver us that high interest level hottie.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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