"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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saber101

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There are alot of girls in my classes that i know, but we never talk. I was just wondering, how do you approach someone like that. You obviously can't approach them by saying something like "Hey, im tom" because they already know that. How do you go about seducing a woman who already knows you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man calm down
1rst stop caring that's ur biggest problem
2nd their not gonna b all *****y and in ur face if u talk to them make it natural look at the Bible for convo tips but all i can say is b really friendly and nice if ur not funny or cool u can always just b a good or nice guy it wont get u girls but it sure as hell well higher their asteam for u
 

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If you see her in the hall go up to her and say : " stop... ( scratch chin for a sec) dont i know you from somewhere" with a smirk on your face. she'l more than likely giggle and tell u ur an idiot and that she sits like 3 seats away from you... but there you have it, you've broken the ice. From there just make general chat... make it short and sweet. if u start blabbing about nothing you'l look like an idiot,, id qualify her quick sayin somethin like... Hey, id say u should come check out this party on this weekend,,, but u look like the kinda girl that would crack a book b4 you crack'd a beer; but if you change your mind jus come let me know. Then exit.... Always exit on a high note, keep them wanting more.

Peace
 

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Way i do it really depends on the type of teacher you got. Do you have the bitvhy teachers who don't allow you to talk or the non strict ones?

I'd say open minded questions an then go into a little story(usually a story that is a lie that i made up on the fly lol)

For example say ur in your history class or something and you was talking about the indians.

*walk over to the girl and sit next to her*
DJ - Hey you ever went hiking or camping?
Her - No
DJ - Wow you never its the most amazing thing
DJ - It was my cousin his girlfriend and his girlfriend sister... add some C&F some drama mix that up with some jealousy and anything else to sound like a damn love novel that them girls read.

after that u basically can start gaming her. Also make sure the story isn't too long.
 
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I have this class with a bunch of girls in it but the teacher never closes her mouth so I barely get to talk to any of em but when I do, I'm sure to either bust on em. Like today,...

Her:Like I was at a family reunion and we were eating this soup that was brought out to us and I take out some with my spoon and as I'm about to eat it, like I see this dead ant/bee/grasshopper in it..it was..sooooo. gross.

Me: Yeah, and you ate it and loved it didn't you melanie?

Her:nooo(blushes and giggles).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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