second date: success!

[HappyHarryHardon]

just want to know how you guys think i did and where to go from here;

so she text me saying she was running late. like 30 mins late. my plan was to get her to come in, sit down and we can fool around a bit but didn't quite work out.

anyway, i give her a kiss on the lips as we greet each other (felt normal) and she comes in for a while, then we leave. we were gonna go to this place i suggested but she didn't know how to get there and said lets just go to **** instead so i said okay lets do it.

we got there, played some arcades (this was a good idea of mine that went perfect) we had so much fun shooting hoops (she kicked my ass of course) then played some air hockey and i won. we did a lot of short kisses from time to time, holding each other, holding hands etc.

when we went to see the movie it kind of died.. didn't touch once or anything, just watched the movie. there was just too many people around us, would of been awkward if i was making moves there. anyway, when we got out it was back into the kino stuff. we sat outside a cafe on a bench and made out a bit ... guess shes okay with public

we get to the parking lot and i say, hey theres no one here, lets take advantage of it and make out standing up for a while (i had a huge boner and i still sort of get embarrassed if it touches their leg lol. but apparently they like it)

so she drives me back home and parks up, turns the ignition off so im thinking, thats a good sign, she wants to make out... and we did for about 15 mins or so. gave her a nice back massage, she loved it.. felt her breasts and ass, body (with clothes on) and just making out pretty much. she said she should go after a while of doing that cause she has work next day. but we kept going at it for another 5 mins. got out the car and started making out again standing up out of the car and she said we should do this again and i said for sure.

i walked inside and she left. so i had a really good time and so did she.

now last time i was the one who text her first the next day after the date to say i enjoyed it and arranged the second (THIS) date. should i do the same thing? or wait for her to maybe contact me. cause i have another date already planned out... its gonna be more romantic.

 

[Maximus Rex]

now last time i was the one who text her first the next day after the date to say i enjoyed it and arranged the second (THIS) date. should i do the same thing? or wait for her to maybe contact me. cause i have another date already planned out... its gonna be more romantic.

You should be working on a new target, before you get severe case of oneities. You should also consolidate on of this posts into one thread.

 

[HappyHarryHardon]

i've had enough of looking for girls, trust me. i've had a pretty tiring month going on dates with several girls and trying to get to know them. it's very exhausting. for a guy like me who doesn't go partying, clubbing, bars, drinking, smoking, it's hard to find a nice girl.

do you know how hard it is to find a really nice girl? i've dated many girls the past few months and almost every other girl is a skank who drinks, parties and/or smokes every weekend. i will not get any oneities, i know how to control myself. just saying, for a guy like me its not easy and i don't mind staying single again if things don't work out with this one cause searching for the right girl is a killer for me... can't be fuked. but so far this girl is great and i'll see how it goes.

i will never get oneities as you put it ever again. i've learnt from my past mistakes when i use to fall for every girl i met. it ruined me bad. i'm very good at controlling myself these days cause i know what will happen... i'll miss out on a good girl if i do it again. it's really simple anyway, just don't be needy and give them space. i'm not gonna start calling her and texting her every day man, i'm cool. easy going. i only contact girls once, to make the date arrangements and that's it. i'm very careful these days. i keep myself busy with other things so that helps too. talk to other girls but i don't really try pick up girls that much these days because almost every one of them i try to pick up ends up being a skanky alcoholic druggie filthy smoking b1tch... or something like that.

oh and i'm not into the one nighters anymore. been there done that.