If you go to a restaurant to eat and choose to sit at the bar, and if you spot some girl you like, do you just go sit right beside her or keep a seat or two away from her and then slowly approach? Would it be too obvious/aggressive if you sit down right beside her if there are empty seats further away? Today I picked an empty spot with both seats empty around me, then I found out I got stuck because someone else just sit down between me and the girl.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter LeonSK
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tictac
Banned
I guess you learned the answer to your question.
Tictac
Banned
No. At worst, you'd be seen as direct.
Even if it doesn't go well, who cares?
That's how I do things.
Try it.
Even if it doesn't go well, who cares?
That's how I do things.
Try it.