"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ApC23

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so for you shy or quiet guys...how do you deal with all these ****ing presentations in classes? i dont get as nervous as i used to, but im getting so sick of this **** now, what did you do about it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ManinNeed

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I basically just look right above the crowds head and speak bodly. Before I go up I always take a deep breathe though. I don't feel all that bad about presentaions, maybe it's because that's my chance to get my opinion heard and show people my real voice.
 

NeW2TheGame

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Have the "Fuk it" attitude, i hate presentations/speeches/dramatic presentations too, dramatic presentations are the worst because you have to be...well...dramatic!..frankly i suck at that.
But what can you do?
Get it over and done with, i mean, you can either be a pu$sy and refuse to do it while the whole class laughs at you, or you can get the fuk up there and do what you have to do, and earn some respect.

Good luck.
 
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