"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scheduling Problems.

SharinganUser

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How do you guys go about scheduling a get together in todays fast pace society?

I want to know because I took way longer than I should have tonight to schedule a date with a woman that doesn't speak very much english.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zerocelcius

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SharinganUser said:
How do you guys go about scheduling a get together in todays fast pace society?

I want to know because I took way longer than I should have tonight to schedule a date with a woman that doesn't speak very much english.

I would love to figure this one out!!! Got the same issues My Friend!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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It's all about having priorities. People will always find time for their priorities. Now, if you are one whose priorities are based on the needs of others, you will probably have a bit of difficulty.
 
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