"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scale of prefrence

spectacular

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I used to be very good in economics and the term scale of prefrence stuck with me since then.Here is the scale of prefrence of my life at the moment.....(1)Knowing God and improving in my spiritual life(2)My family(3)Fulfilling my destiny and making tons of MONEY(4)My health and hobbies(5)women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skalioppe

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spectacular said:
....(1)Knowing God and improving in my spiritual life(2)
...*SNIP*
It's evident that you're a focused guy with plan to life, but dude, this isn't some personal blog for your path of spiritual enlightenment or life preferences!

There is only man, his decisions and his existence.
 
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