"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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escaleraroyal

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Hey, just wonder what you guys wear when going out into the field. you can take a picture to show us or just take a picture of the clothes including shoes. that will help a lot to everyone. (You dont need to show your face if you dont want to)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it depends on your body type and where you are going.

I also discovered something really interesting. I'm in great shape, so i used to wear very tight shirts that showed off my body and would be reluctant to wear shirts that didnt. However, once i wore slightly...classier attire, girls were much more open to me. It's like they labeled me a douchebag right off the bat when i was wearing "player" clothing, but once i started wearing more unassuming clothing they were very nice to me and i started even getting opened by girls. This also happened when i started wearing my glasses out. Maybe this is just me though, because my gaming style is to come in kind of under the radar

I guess my point is be careful when people tell you to dress like a total fvckin playa and rockstar and all that. Once i ditched the muscle shirts for classy v-neck sweaters (still pretty tight fitting), i had much better results. Now that i think about it....i think most of the times i've picked up girls when out at bars or clubs have been when i'm rocking a nice sweater. You tend to stand out from all the AFFLICTION and ED HARDY sh!t. You look much more intelligent while still projecting sexuality.

If you're going out, the general rule is to wear something SLIGHTLY nicer than the other people there. In general, anything with a collar is going to be better. A nice, tightish fitting polo and dark, designer jeans is good. Ralph Lauren polo shirts are good, but avoid the ones with the BIG horse polo logo on it.

If you're doing a button down PLEASE PLEASE make sure it is fitted so it doesnt billow out. assuming you;re in decent shape, it should fit wider at the shoulders and then taper down towards the stomach and waist to make you appear slimmer. People may b!tch about the quality but if you can get them on sale, the Express MX1 fitted shirts fit very well if you're slim.

The style of the shirt is often far less important than the FIT. I would choose a cheaper no-name shirt over an expensive one if the fit is better for your body (although i do find that designer clothes fit better, especially if you're thin/athletic.

SHOES are key. If you insist on sneakers, black converse are not a bad option. But try to get nicer black or brown leather shoes. There are also designer sneakers that are pretty nice but they're pricey.

Honestly. TJMAxx/Marshall's is your best friend. Brand name stuff DOES make a difference, even if just because it fits better (and usually looks and feels better).

I really like the Merino Wool sweaters from the GAP as well. i think they run like $60ish new, but if you wait for the sales, which are frequent, you can nab them for closer to $30.

Sorry i dont have pictures for you. I'm honestly too lazy. One too many vodkas and i'm sleepy
 

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A pair of nice leather dress shoes and matching belt. My current are brown and I got them at Johnston and Murphy.

Dark jeans or slacks. I prefer Levis or slacks from somewhere like armani, express, or hugo boss.

A nice button up fitted collared shirt. Avoid any pattern that is too distracting. Armani and Johnston and Murphy have nice shirts.

A quality hat that looks good on you. My current favorite is a black felt fedora. The hat makes you stand out in a crowd. I get comments on mine all the time. Go to a hat store and have someone who knows something about hats to help you find one that looks good.

Finish it off with a quality cologne.

The shoes and belt are the biggest investment, but they will last forever. You can gat everything listed for 500 or less.


If you want to see pictures of the kind of clothing I am talking about google detective quin from the show dexter. Thay mofo is a sharp dressed man...
 

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For me it depends on where I am going and what kind of crowd is going to be there. For me I either go for the bad a$$ look or the elegant look ( I know 2 completely different styles) I usually decide which one on where I am going that night.

If I am going to a place with a lot of younger girls I tend to go for the bad a$$ look. I usually wear a nice leather jacket with a v neck ( showing off my ink a little) and black slim fit jeans with my black converse shoes. I like to wear a few bracelets, a nice watch, or a neckace for accessories. I usually only wear one of the above for accessories I don't want to over do it. This look usually works good for me and if you pull it off right ( with proper fitted clothing ) it can be a really good look.

If I am going out to a bar or club with older girls I generally dress more elegant. I would wear a blazer with a nice fitted dress shirt underneath. I zara blazer and dress pants which give a really nice Fitted look and I have lots of hugo boss dress shirts so I just mix and match. For shoes I would usually wear some wing tip shoes.

To check out some well dressed celebrities that make every chicks panties wet, check out David Beckham's outfits or Ryan Gossling. You do not need to purchase the same brands as them, instead you could find cheaper versions in stores like Zara.

These are just some of my sarging outfits, If you need any help feel free to PM me.
 
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