"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sarging 209 (modesto, manteca,) ca

caliman

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i sarge a lot in the 209. i sarge in modesto, stockton, and manteca. i sarge manteca the most. if your interested in joining me in sarging send me an email to
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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caliman

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i notcied there has been quite a number of views on here. im still sarging in modesto and other 209 areas. i meet up with a wing a few times a month in downtown modesto. he is a good wing. your welcome to join me sarging and/or me and my wing sarging. must be at least 21. must not be afraid to meet up. email me and i'll let you know when im going out sarging.
 

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dam dude im 18 out here in stockton for summer break...r there any under 21 DJ's???...if so pm me....
 
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