semperfkemall
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Whats up, where are all my fellow santa barbarans at?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
semperfkemall
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no DJs or aspiring DJ's in the santa barbara area? : (
spesmilitis
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yah, do you go to ucsb?
semperfkemall
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I goto city, Im living up in IV.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Anyone else in SB?
Colin O'Brien
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Hah, I was gonna post something for SB but it was so specific I didn't think I'd get a response.
I'm in Santa Barbara too, HS senior. Freebirds is bomb, I'm more of an In-N-out guy myself. I gotta say I'm pretty stoked there are fellow aspiring DJs in my area, we should meet up sometime.
I'm in Santa Barbara too, HS senior. Freebirds is bomb, I'm more of an In-N-out guy myself. I gotta say I'm pretty stoked there are fellow aspiring DJs in my area, we should meet up sometime.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.