San Diego, Carlsbad/Encinitas Active Wingman Call

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don Juan

Jul 19, 2013

Hey guys, I'm Andrew, 30, in Oceanside. Been into the game for years now, familiar with all the pros Mystery, Rsd, Dyd. If any of you guys ever sarge or want to sarge the Carlsbad/Encinitas area hit me up.

We are creating an active group that meets up on a regular basis to learn and share material and to go out and meet women and practise our game. If your interested in joining the group or if your looking for an extra wingman call or text me, 76o 814-3548, and either we'll meet up to sarge sometime or I'll let you know the next time the groups meets so you can join us. Let's do this.

A-

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.